Thank you KatherineGAC.. I think I have been stressed lately hence the reason for the nasty trick my body has played on me..lol.
An update on things now is: I never really got my period that month, it came a couple of days early and was only there when I wiped, didnt even need to wear a tampon! All up I think I expelled about a tablespoon in the four days is was hanging around. All my symptoms stopped the day I got the weird period aside from the lower backpain that is. Afterwards I seemed to be overly bloated and had constipation, which was a total turn around from the week before where I had the runs! lol. I ended up taking a test the day before my weird period stopped and it was negative, but I figured it might be too early to tell, so I waited a week and took another test but that came back negative aswell. I was very disappointed (so was my partner). I stopped taking the birth control pill in December last year, I only ever took it to regulate my periods as they were always erratic, since coming off the pill they are still irregular but that is normal for me, so I dont know when I I am at my fertile day or ovulating etc. Im not in the 'normal' spectrum of women out there lol.. I have 3 children already but I cant remember any of the symptoms I had when I fell pregnant with them, my youngest is 9 so its been a while LOL. Like I said I was under a lot of stress the week my actual period was due as I had my foster son going in for a major operation so I am not sure if that effected my period flow, I have never had a period like that before usually I am super heavy and it lasts for 5 days straight so this one really shocked me! My partner and I want another baby BUT we are in our mid 30's now and I have told him that our chances of conceiving at our age is difficult. I never had a problem falling pregnant before, gee I just had to use the same soap and hello pregnant, but I was younger then! I guess if it happens then great, if not then what can I do. I have now decided top stop trying to time my 'fertility days' (I dont even know if I have that right anyway considering I am irregular) and just go with the flow. I am not due to get my next period for another 2 weeks or so. I dont even know if this one is going to be 'normal', my partner and I have 'gotten busy' alot this month, so I am still hopeful but if 'Aunt Flo' comes then I will just have to accept that it is not our time yet! Thank you for your advice and I wish you the best of luck with your pregnancy, congratulations aswell