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Posted by nicole d
on October 08, 2000 at 15:24:36:
In Reply to: Was I wrong? posted by Kat on October 08, 2000 at 14:26:44:
your husband sounds overly possessive and abusive. he clearly has low self esteem and feels the need to control those around him (his friend, you). since you obviously have access to a computer, i suggest you do some searches on codependence. CODA (codependants anon.) is an excellent organization based on the 12 step program. the fact that you have no friends, and when you developed a friendship your husband effectively destroyed that friendship suggests an emotionally abusive relationship. he is alienating you from the rest of the world.
i believe everything happens for a reason. you learned that you could form a positive relationship (friendship) with a person of the opposite sex. you are clearly a sensitive, caring person and you deserve to have your needs met in a healthy relationship. refuse to accept the blame, your husband really needs to look at his behaviors. good luck!
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