Posted by Julie on September 30, 2000 at 11:38:26:

In Reply to: Julie posted by del on September 30, 2000 at 01:01:43:

I'm sorry, I didn't mean to leave an impression that I hold any bitterness.

But please do not accuse me of not taking responsibility for my problem. I will admit that it took me a very long time to do just that, but I have done that.
And I did thank my friend. As I try to say in all my posts, I am not a professional, and every situation is different.

I was simply making a comment for others to consider, not trying to tell someone the right or wrong way to do something.

: If you are still embarrassed, I think you need to take responsibility for your problem that worried your friend, and thank her/him, not dwell on yourself like that.
: Your friend did the right thing and helped you, whether or not you accept that it was love.