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Posted by Freda H. Babinski on August 06, 2000 at 01:43:08:

In Reply to: gwv's anger posted by corina on August 05, 2000 at 19:24:27:

Hi Corina,
As you have already seen, my name is all over the place here but that's because I want to do what I can to help, even if it's just giving you someone to talk to who is in your same situation. First of all, what you are doing is exactly what you should do and that's be there for him. How he's feeling is not his fault and he should be constantly reminded of that. My husband has the same headaches, ANGER, etc. No he's not crazy and he should not believe that at all. He's like the rest of us, he's sick. If you read my other posts and replys to posts, you'll get an idea of what we're going through too. If your boyfriend is being seen by a VA Dr. and he's not happy w/him or her then he should request to be assigned another Dr. He has the right to do that. My husband did because his Dr. accused him of being an alcoholic which of course he isn't. He doesn't even drink at all. It was because of the results of his liver test. If you ever want to talk, I'm here. You just contact me at Tndeer1@aol.com. I've kept up with this Illness for several yrs. and not only has this illness effected me but also my pets are even sick from it. My husband carries a huge amount of guilt because of that but I'm with him and don't intend to desert him like our Government has. He's worth more than that to me. Be as strong as you possibly can and help him all you can. God will supply the strength you need and you just made a new friend in me, that is if you want one. No, you're not alone. God Bless! Freda
: hi,myboyfriend and i have been together for almost 3yrs.we have a 9month old daughter,and he has the syndrome.he don't seem to understand that i'm here for him no matter how bad things get. he keeps trying to push me away.the only thing i know to do...is to keep on loving him. i get scared everytime he goes to the doctors because 1 of 2 things happens: he comes home so angry- because they keep trying to tell him he's crazy,or they don't say anything at all, or hes just so lost that he don't know how hes supposed to feel. he gets down now and then when he realizes that hes been more upset(angry with us at home)more than usual,and begins to feel bad. hes so scared of leaving us alone that more than 1/2 the time i have to plead with him to go in for his appointments... hes so tired of not getting answers, and being told hes crazy(that is what the doctor told him) that he'd rather just not have to hear it again. i don't let him know how scared i get, when he has trouble breathing at night,or when the headaches get so bad he has a hard time focusing, or when he gets angry at the whole world. i try and do the best, but i don't even know where to look for answers, for the both of us. thats how i ended up here writing this...i found this page,


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