Posted by Freda H. Babinski
on August 19, 2000 at 21:58:50:
In Reply to: BOYFRIEND posted by LORI on August 19, 2000 at 18:50:58:
I can't answer the question on the children part but I can only tell you this on your boyfriend. First of all, only you can answer that question for yourself. You have to follow your heart but keep in mind that what's happening to him is NOT his fault. He can't help it. No more than my husband can help what he's going through but I'm married to him and I won't leave him because I took a vow. If you cannot help him with your support then you aren't going to do him or you any good. My advise is to pray about it (if you're a believer) and I think you'll know what to do, that is if you sincerely ask God from your heart. If you want to talk, feel free to email me at Tndeer1@aol.com. I hope I've helped in some way. God Bless. Freda
: I HAVE 2 QUESTIONS ONE WHAT ARE SOME OF THE THING THAT YOUR CHILDREN HAVE COME DOWN WITH OR BEEN BORN WITH? AND I HAVE FALLEN IN LOVE WITH A GULF WAR VET BUT HE BECAME VERY ILL SOON AFTER WE MET IS IT EASYIER TO HAVE SOMEONE YOU CARE ABOUT WITH YOU EVEN THOUGH IN MY BOYFRIENDS CASE IT IS JUST A MATTER OF DETIRORATION BEFORE HE DIES AND I WILL BE WATCHING HIM THE ENTIRE TIME OR SOULD I JUST STAY BACK AND WATCH FROM A DISTANCE?