Re: Etopic pregnancy
Re: Etopic pregnancy
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Posted by Shellie
on November 08, 2000 at 20:10:16:
In Reply to: Re: Etopic pregnancy posted by Kelcy on February 21, 2000 at 16:55:50:
: What is a biochemical pregnancy?
: A few years ago, I was late for my period. I did a home pregnancy test, and it was positive. I went and had a test done at the clinic; it was also positive. I scheduled my first OB appointment, but the week before, I started a very heavy period. My doctor said that what probably happened was the fertilized egg was shed in the mentstrual cycle. Since this time, I have been unable to conceive. All fertility work ups have been normal. The hormone tests, HSG, and my husband all came back fine. I have been off and on birth control for almost six years now. I am so heartbroken that I can't have a baby. My husband and I would be such good parents. Like others, I cringe when I see pregnant women and young mothers. I work with abused and neglected children. It is not fair that a woman who would starve or beat a baby to death can have ten, but I, who would care for and love a baby, can't have a single one. Oh, well, I guess I should stop whining. Good luck in trying to get pregnant. Good luck to us all!
I am 25 and this past summer I had an etopic pregnancy. I feel the same way you do. My sister who has 2 children already had just found out she was pregnant and didn't want the baby she keep it but I just wonder why I lost mine that I wanted so bad and she gets to have hers when she doesn't even want it. It seems so unfair. I have been extremly depressed since loosing my baby. The doctor had to do an actual surgury on me I now have a six inch scar on my lower stomach that reminds me every day what I lost. how do you deal with it I only lost one baby and I feel some times that I would rather not have had the surgury then I would have died and I would still be with my baby. I feel weird around my sister because I envy her so much. I hope you suceed in having a child. You sound like you will be a good mother.