Poly cystic ovaries - recent diagnosis

I am 27 years old and will be getting married in the spring of 2000. I have always had very irregular cycles
and was diagnosed today with PCO. My fiance and I really want to have a family and now I am afraid
that I will not be able to bear children. Also, my doctor said that I have a high level of Testosterone in my
system. We have looked into the Billings method of pregnancy planning, but due to my lack of ovulation,
no one seems to be able to help us. I do not want to try fertility medication, because my mother almost
lost her life to an ectopic pregnancy (she hemmoraged severely). Hopefully, there is someone out there
who can ease my concerns.