Posted by lance
on November 01, 2000 at 16:56:38:
In Reply to: Scared of Dad posted by Eric on November 01, 2000 at 16:47:36:
: Ever since I was a kid my dad has prided me and my brother on being a manly, man. Tommorrow my dad is planning on taking me to the gym and I am afraid If I shower with him in the locker he will think my penis is small. I am uncomfortable with this and dont want to go. What should I do, be subject to humilitaion or make up an excuse.
First time there can be a real tough time. YES, I think you go and walk right in that shower with him. NO, it may not be easy.....I bet your Dad would never say anything about your penis. He probably won't even notice its size as will few other men there. I know, I've been there and we all think everyone is looking at our penis..but guess what, they have one too and some of them are small and some are large. Its best to just do it, you'll be facing it again at some point and the sooner you just walk in there with your head up, just taking a shower the easier it will be. If you have a really good open relationship with Dad you might also talk about this with him. "Hey Dad, how was it the first time you went to the gym, I'm just curious and feeling a little uneasy, what should I expect?" You may be surprised how he responds.