Posted by Darrell
on October 23, 2000 at 09:17:46:
In Reply to: Re: Need advice; mom keeps forgetting to take her meds posted by Sylvia on October 23, 2000 at 08:33:16:
: : : Hello,
: : : I am new to this board, and am so glad I found it! My mother, who is now almost 70, was diagnosed with Parkinson's many years ago. She is at the point, now, where she has a lot of trouble getting up from a seated position, and always requires assistance when walking. She cries with frustration many times per day, because her body won't do what she wants it to do.
: : : My dad, who is 75 and fortunately, due to modern medication, is in very good health, loves my mother very much and takes very good care of my mother. He is not yet comfortable with the computer, so I am writing this on his behalf (though he is unaware of this!).
: : : Here is the problem: Mom keeps forgetting to take her meds on time and on a regular basis. Also, a few weeks ago, she somehow cracked her pelvis, and is now, and hopefully temporarily, confined to a wheelchair. It is very hard for my dad to get her around. So things are even worse now. Dad made Mom a med schedule indicating which pills are to be taken when, but Mom just won't use it. Because she is almost always late taking her pills, it seems she spends most of her time in an "off" mode. It is so rare that I see her in an "on" mode.
: : : My dad is really frustrated that mom won't take her meds when she is supposed to. Mom doesn't like forgetting her pills, but regardless, never seems to try to remember. And she ignores the schedule that Dad made for her.
: : : Please pardon my ignorance, but is this common with Parkinson's? Is there something my dad or I could say or do that would help mom with this problem? Could it be that her pills don't help her much, so she sees no point in taking them?
: : : One of the pills she takes is Zoloft, an antidepressant. I also take antidepressants, and have taken Zoloft before. I was surprised that she was on only 50mg per day. When I took Zoloft, I think I was taking 150mg per day. Is 50mg. a normal dosage? I asked her about it -- she never questions her doctor, just does what he says. I know that the Zoloft is not helping her.
: : : In all the time Mom has had Parkinson's, it seems she has not wanted to help herself. Is this normal?
: : : I hope you can help... I do not know anyone (other than mom) with Parkinson's, so don't know what is typical for this disease. But I really want to help my parents cope. Now that I have found this board, I'm hoping I might be able to learn more about Parkinson's and maybe help out my parents.
: : : Thank you so much!
: : : Nancy
: : Nancy, welcome to the board. You will get many responses to your questio and most Parkinson's patients are unique in that are symptoms vary a lot from patient. I have had pd for about nine years and I will admit I really have to concentrate and keep reminding myself to remember when to take the drugs. You might be right about the dose of Zoloft being to low, because it's possible your mother is depressed and not taking the pills might be one indication. In my own experience, using a timer or writting down the schedule to help your mother remember probably won't work, because I didn't stick with it. I can't say for certain,but it looks like your mother is missing a lot her doses or the drugs tend to wear off if she has taken them for many years. Talk to your doctor about your mother's symptoms and maybe he can give her a higher dose of Zoloft. This might be difficult for you and your Dad, but sooner or later someone will have to take charge of dispensing the pills. It is a shame that your mother has so much off time, because their are a lot of Parkinson drugs that would increase her on time and your mother would feel so much better. I take five different pd drugs and if I didn't I wouldn;t be able to get out of bed. Have you ever tried to take your mother to a support group meeting? Your mother would be able talk to others like you will hear from on this board. Also, that might improve any deppression. I have yet to meet any other person with Parkinson;s that would not be willing to share their experiences. We are all in this together and their are a lot of nice, informed people who visit this board. Don't hesitate to post more questions, because we will always be here for you. Bruce
: Dear Nancy, Everything Bruce says is right. There are a lot of caring people on this msg board and you will glean a lot of valuable information. Parkinson's is a very frustrating disease not only for the person afflicted but the care givers also. I too, sometimes forget to take my medicatons and when I start feeling bad I know why. I have very supportive friends and family and many of them will remind me if I have forgotten the meds when I am in their company. Thankfully, I haven't suffered from any depression, my husband does so I know how important the proper dosage is. Some Pders are embarrassed about having this disorder, but if you can get your Mom or Dad to share her problems, it will be so much easier for her. My heart goes out to all three of you. We will be thinking of you and praying for improvement of your situation. One more thing, Is the doctor you are using associated with a movement disorder center? If not I highly recommend getting an opinion from one.
Nancy, I am 49 and have had pd for about 16 yrs.
I also have had problems remembering to take my medicine. At one point I was taking 6 differemt meds all at different intervals, that was very difficult to manage. I have used the alarm on my pager to help remind me, that helped. Also, I remember seeing a phone reminder service on the web, I will see if I can find the URL and post it if I find it. I recently made a meds adjustment, I am now only taking 2 pd meds + paxil for depression, both at the same time and 3 hours apart, so it is easy to remember. Good luck and I hope everything works out.