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Posted by Eva
on March 15, 2000 at 23:40:54:
In Reply to: SCARED TEEN! PLEASE HELP posted by scared on March 15, 2000 at 20:27:58:
: Im an 18 year old teen and now Im pregnant. My boyfriend and i are getting married soon (our families pushed it)and now that i realize im going to spend the rest of my life with this guy i feel a guilty concience.I'm young and never thought Id have a baby and be in this position. According to my doctor I got pregnant at the end of November. Well in mid December I had slept with someone else. I used protection with this other person of course because I'm really scared of diseases since my boyfriend and I got tested and everything was negative and I wouldn't jeapordize his health. Now I have this little question in my head WHAT IF my boyfriends not the father??? This might be my guilt but its really haunting me. My boyfriend and I always have unprotected sex and i did it once with a another with protection.Im sure the condom didn't break. Am I being paranoid? Im a terrible person I know.
: I was young and stupid. WHat should I do now? If this gets out itll destroy everything. Do you think it's my guilt or base on facts I have something to be worried about? Please help me! If you believe there is a chance my boyfriend may not be the father tell me because if there is a chance...then I know I cant decieve him.
I want you to know that no matter what happens you will be ok and this will work out! I myself was a scared pregnant teen. I was fifteen when I became pregnant. I had my son 4 days after my sweet sixteenth birthday. Babies are a true gift from God. I am still married after twelve years to this man that I felt guilt over too. These things can work out.
About the other guy in December, I do think it is your guilt eating at you. Honestly I don't think you should tell him because it would be selfish in my eyes to simply just be alleviating your own guilt. It's between you and God right now and if some day in the future you feel you should tell him, not out of guilt, then do so. Right now just do what you have to do to bring a healthy baby into this world. It will be your biggest blessing, I truly believe that because it's true in my own life. Email me if you need to. I do care.
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