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Posted by Beenthere
on May 08, 2000 at 03:18:18:
In Reply to: Please Help!!!! 17/m needs advice posted by -?- on May 06, 2000 at 18:43:47:
: Hello to all of you. I really need some advice on the situation at hand. I am 17 years old
: (18 in two months) and I met this girl (age 14) and we hit it off really good at first. She acted way older
: than her age and was always really sweet and nice. anyways, we feel deeply in love and started having
: sex. (more her choice than mine) and after a while, thats all she wanted me for and thats what our
: realtionship turned into. I fell out of love because of this and broke up with her because i knew that
: she did not love me anymore. about two weeks later she called me up saying that she is pregnant. I now
: know that I should have not went out with someone so young. and realize it was a mistake. anyways
: after telling me she was pregnant. She also told me that she did get out of her house (parent abuse)
: and they have went to court recently. Well she told me she was checked for pregnacy, found out she was
: and the lawyer asked for information about it. I kinda think shes lying because she had lied about it before
: just to keep me with her. but if she's not lying and because of my age. I feel that I'm seriously in deep here
: and want some advice. Is there anything I can do if she is, that could help my side of the case. please help
: I'm in big need of advice. please dont write back putting me down. I know what i did was wrong. I just need
: some advice. thanks for your time and help if you can.
Getting a lawyer is good advice . Being under 18 is no advantage . Most states try 17 year olds as adults . Her being in state custody makes it worse . Get proof that you are the father but even if you aren't you're in trouble just for having sex with her . There are several good homes a pregnant girl can stay at and give the baby up for adoption . Check with the Salvation Army and Hismansion.com . Both carefully select adoptive parents . This girl is not fit to be a mother
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