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Re: TEEN in need of ADVICE 911!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Re: TEEN in need of ADVICE 911!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by :0) on May 15, 2000 at 12:46:50:

In Reply to: TEEN in need of ADVICE 911!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! posted by help on May 15, 2000 at 07:45:04:

Did you have an ultrasound? If not you should have. The ultrasound is very accurite in determinting the age of the baby.
Given what you've said the chances of the other guy being your baby's father are next to nothing. He didn't ejaculate, and he wore a condom. I think it's just your feelings of guilt that are causing your irrational fear.
And your not stupid, you just did a stupid thing. Everyone does things in there life they aren't proud of and shouldn't have done, but the key is to learn from it and never do it again.
The only thing i can really tell you to do if you can't let go of this fear is to find the other guy and see if you can come up with some money and do a dna test after the baby is born. I can tell you right now what the results would be, but it may be the best thing if you can't let go of the feelings your having. Your bf doesn't need to know, just the other guy.
i wouldn't be worried at all if i were you. Your letting your feelings of guilt override your reasoning, if you look at the facts getting pregnant from the situation you discribed is practicly nothing. If no sperm came in contact with your vagina then there is no possible way it could be his.
I hope your able to move past this and enjoy being pregnant...it's such a wonderful thing.



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