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Re: Boyfriend wants me to have an abortion - I can't.
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on June 01, 2000 at 14:24:46:
In Reply to: Boyfriend wants me to have an abortion - I can't. posted by K Lynn on June 01, 2000 at 09:46:00:
It's your baby (his too, but more yours since your the one carrying it), and your body if you don't want to go through with the abortion under no circumstances go through with it to please him. If you put your foot down (which you really need to do...we are talking about a life here), he'll do one of two things..be pissed but accept it, or he'll leave. You need to be prepared, emotionaly and finiacialy to care for a baby alone if need be (there are organizations all over the place that can help you out if you need it).
About your family, why not tell them and see if this mess can bring you closer together....besides...what could they say? your a grown woman able to make your own choices and fend for yourself.
One other thing....do not bring a baby into an unstable envrionment, either break off the relationship with him or work out your problems before the baby comes, with couciling. babies need loving and stable environments...so if you can't work through the problems you'r going to have to have him in your life only as the father of your child.
good luck in whatever you choose :0)
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