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Re: seriously in need of opinion

Re: seriously in need of opinion

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Posted by hannah on June 11, 2000 at 07:31:32:

In Reply to: Re: seriously in need of opinion posted by :0) on April 30, 2000 at 06:58:32:

All good relationships run on trust and if you want your relationship to have even a chance of succeeding you need to come clean, if you cant even trust eachother to tell the other when you make a mistake then you may never last!! plus you'll never resolve the issue if you don't put it out on the table!! : Well, i think that your feeling more guilt about the affair than being worried the baby belongs to the other man.
: When doctors estimate the time of conception they are usually within a week or so dead on, especially if the ultrasound was done early on {like before 24-25wks} because at that age all babies are at the same stage and usually around the same size. They can tell by how developed the baby is and get a pretty good idea of when conception occured. So, i think you really need to try and look at this from the facts and not your feelings. Conception occured 2wks before you slept with him, he wore a condom, the condom didn't break, and he didn't ejaculate. You need to try and relax and get over the guilt. You should find someone who can help you deal with it and get over it, Afterall you've got a beautifull baby on the way, you should be enjoying that rather than worring about the father.
: I wouldn't advise telling your bf...if you think he can get past it in the relationship then it might help you to tell, but if he won't be able to get over it'll ruin the relationship and chances are he'll want a paternity test done, which is unecessary if you look at the facts.
: Given all of the facts i'd say the chances of the other guy being the father are nothing. So i hope you can move past this and enjoy the little life that's growing inside of you.
: Good Luck :0)




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