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Posted by dena
on September 20, 2000 at 10:39:22:
In Reply to: Help! posted by anastacia on September 17, 2000 at 15:47:51:
: I am pregnant! Due very soon and I am engaged to be married. My question is that about 8 days after my supposed ovulation date(before I knew I was pregnant) my fiance and I got into an argument at a party where he left me. I proceded to get REALLY drunk and woke up sometime inthe middle of the night with his friend on the couch with me already in the act of relieving himself with the manual aid of my hand and alternatly touching me with the hand he was useing on himself.I was so disoriented and embaressed that I got myself in such a horrible situation that I just continued to feign(sp?) sleep. I have kept this secret to myself for the whole pregnacy and have a deep dark fear that this baby is not my fiance's. Please if any of you know... what are the chances this baby is not my fiance's? I had my underwear on the whole time and and there was no intercoarse of any kind.My concern is that he may have had semen on his hands when he touched me. My recollection of the whole icedent is suspect because I had been drinking sooo much and my memory is kind of cloudy. PLEASE HELP ME!!!
i think the chances that your pregnant with your fiance's friend are really really low, especially if you and your fiance had full intercourse during your fertile days. because you don't have a way of knowing for sure who's he father now, i would try to leave that aside. the more important thing is , as i see it, to make peace with your fiance, and dealling with the incident with his friend. i hope things will turn out for the best.
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