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My opinion, for you Sarah!!

My opinion, for you Sarah!!

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Posted by Jessie on September 30, 2000 at 17:38:22:

In Reply to: PLEASE READ...Im 19 and want a baby more than anything posted by Sarah on September 25, 2000 at 00:41:44:

Hi Sarah!
I'm 19 years old too. I'm gonna be 20 in march of 2001.
I feel the same way as you. And I don't really understand why most people think that at 19 years old, it's impossible to be stable in life and with your lover... Like I said, I'm 19 and I'm with my boyfriend for 4 years, who's 25 years old. We both work full time (I work with babies and children). Before "working" with them, I was thinking that having a baby is wonderful, easy in a certain way... Sure, it's really wonderful but not always easy... But I think I'm ready too for that. After 4 years with my boyfriend, it still going very well (better than before sometimes!). I'm sure I would be a pretty good mother. I have a lots of patience with children and babies. I think that you REALLY have to be ready for this because it's a really BIG decision!! For me, the only thing is that my boyfriend's not ready right now. Maybe in a couple of months but not now... He seems to be a little bit afraid (and I understand him too!), we're all afraid of what's gonna happen after etc. (even at 30 years old!). But, we talk a lot about it and, we'll see!!
If you have a very good relationship with your boyfriend, that you know him A LOT, it's your decision, but a VERY important decision! Think about that and I'm sure that you know in your heart what to do!
Good Luck Sarah!


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