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Posted by Emmy
on October 09, 2000 at 14:46:00:
In Reply to: help me help meeeeee posted by lindsay on October 07, 2000 at 16:45:42:
The right time to have sex and the most enjoyable time is when you are feeling secure in a relationship, feeling loved by who you are with, and able to handle what the possible outcomes may be of that act. I'm 33 now, but I went through the same fears. Many of my friends did. Some of us made decisions to wait, to go to school, to take life a day at a time, and enjoy being young (by planning on school). Some of us had it harder, by having children when they weren't ready. There are two roads you can take in life basically -- the harder and the easier road. Picture your life as you would have it if you could and aim for that. Don't settle just because it's the "in thing". The most rewarding thing in life is to be at the place you want to be at, or somewhat close to it, and hold a baby in your arms. As most sleep-deprived parents will tell you, it is definitely the hardest job they have ever had. Don't rush. Explore and enjoy other non-sex aspects of your life. And the rest will fall into place.
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