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Re: I want the baby but my husband doesn't

Re: I want the baby but my husband doesn't

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Posted by Kelly on October 20, 2000 at 16:35:12:

In Reply to: Re: I want the baby but my husband doesn't posted by :0) on October 14, 2000 at 06:30:31:

: Why on earth weren't children discussed before marriage? It is unfair to him to have children when he is so against it, not to mention to the child, assuming something doesn't change his attitude he'll never be a good father. It is also not fair to you to have to go the rest of your life without a child when u want one so badly.
: The solution is maybe coucling?if your husband is unwilling to talk or accept this baby you might be looking at a divorce if you decide to have this baby. Abortion is a very very hard and person decision, it's not something you do to please your husband, it's your baby too. But you cannot force him to be a daddy, so if you really want this baby be prepared to raise it alone.
: I think the both of you really need to go talk to someone and try to work things out if at all possible, but ur husband doesn't sound like a talker...you've got some hard choices ahead, just don't rush into anything, i think even if just you went to talk to a therapist it would help you, you need someone objective to help you sort through everything. good luck, :0)

This is a really hard decision to make, on one hand I think you should have the baby and to hell with your husband acting like an asshole, but I also know what it's like to grow up without a father and with a father who doesn't love you.
All I can say is that I hope you make a decision for your baby, not for your stupid husband.


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