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Posted by Heather V
on November 08, 2000 at 01:38:07:
In Reply to: I want the baby but my husband doesn't posted by Bryony on October 14, 2000 at 03:43:55:
: Can somebody help please. I've been married for 12 years and my husband and I have always had a good relationship. The dicussion of children was always avoided and he is very content
: with his life and assumes that I am. I am, but whenever I tried to discuss about starting a faimly, he didn't answer or it was very bried. In February 2000 we went to our local GP about
: getting him a vescetomy and we were told to go away and think about it. Now I'm 7 weeks pregnant, he wants me to have an abortion and I'm not keen. If I have the baby I know I will get no support from him
: and if I have a termination, I think that I will suffer the consequences and my marriage will also suffer. Please someone help, I'm very upset.
I vote for giving the baby up for adoption and then dumping the guy for someone who wants kids (if that's what you want). I, too, can't believe you never discussed this with your husband, but the innocent one in this whole thing is the baby. You cannot get an abortion until you're at least 2 month pregnant because they need to wait until the baby is big enough to find. By this time a human embryo is surprisingly very human looking-- it's no ball of cells if that's what you're thinking.
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