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on April 26, 2000 at 15:20:08:
In Reply to: Re: THANK YOU FOR THAT GUILT TRIP> ???(YOU INCREASED MY POTENTIAL posted by TERESSA on April 26, 2000 at 12:47:56:
I'm not trying to make you feel guilty, but one of the first steps in moving on is accepting your part in what happened.
Yes, you were irresposible, but so was everyone else invovled....you made the choice to have sex without protection, just as the men you slept with did..you're all suffering the conseqences of your actions, nobody is more innocent than another, your all guilty. But blaming the guy who gave it to you is not the right way to go about dealing with this. He's not more guilty than you are.
I realize there are other issues you are and were dealing with...most girls who sleep around like you have in your past do it because they have psycological problems, they want the attention and affection and it doesn't matter where it comes from. And i sincerly hope your dealing with your depression and past issues, because untill you do they will never go away.
But what matters is that you've got a guy who loves you and accepts you as you are, most guys wouldn't, the past is just that the past. And no matter what you think about what i said know that i was not judging you, everybody makes mistakes in their past, and i don't think your a bad person for your past. You made a mistake, we have all done that. I really hope your able to overcome your issues and your getting the help that you need.
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