Re: She is an inspiration to me

In Reply to: Re: She is an inspiration to me posted by Stephanie on August 12, 2000 at 23:35:14:

: Hi Kev,
: On the date you wrote your post, I was celebrating my 2nd anniversary of my sci due to a MVA. I was injured at T12, unfortunately.. I am considered complete as I have not had any feeling or sensation lower than my hips. Making love for me is wonderful..although it is all mental now. I do not have any sensation..darn it!! Oh well.. Life goes on. My husband has been wonderful and extremely helpfull since our accident.
: Your attitude to your lady is wonderful. Alot of men would bolt the first chance he got. That means SOOO much to her. Although sometimes I feel inadequate, he always reasures me that I have everything he needs.
: Lately things between hubby and I have been kinda shaky (not related to my injury at all), and it is always in the back of my mind that if anything happened I would be alone for ever.
: Its just good to hear that a man is willing to overlook physical obstacles.

Stephanie,
Thank you for your follow-up. It's good to hear that others love their partner/spouse so much that, like you said, physical obstacles don't matter. I love her so much that I know I will always be there for her. Of course she gets depressed (this is very new to her, and she is adjusting) and has some tough days, but I know that she'll be fine, and together we'll get through this. Who knows, she may get most of her functions back....every day brings a little improvement. Whatever happens, I'm there! Thanks again.
Kev