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trac63
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posted 02-07-2003 05:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for trac63     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My husband likes to wear my panties is this normal for men to want this

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posted 02-07-2003 05:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Thisby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey, what's normal?

Have you asked him just what it is about wearing your panties that is so enjoyable?

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posted 02-07-2003 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for liza     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have to say that it is no way normal.

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I would define "normal" as meaning "ordinary". And...NO men do not ordinarily wear womens panties! I can't imagine why he would enjoy wearing your panties. Men's underwear is now available in all different styles, made from the same variety of fabrics as women's. Why not point this out to him. If he still insists on wearing your's...then I'd say he has some sort of fetish with wanting to feel like a woman.

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posted 02-07-2003 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pacu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Trac
Alot of men have panty fetish, and alot of them like wearing them too. I for one have always been turned on by a nice and sexy pair of panties. Most of the time the attraction will want us men to try them on and find them to be very comfortable as I did and want to wear them more often, I would like to add that I do not think that this has anything do with being gay. I think that you need to talk to him about this and see what he saids, my wife knew that I like wearing panties and she even took me panty shopping, but you need to talk.
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Of course it's normal. I know men that do that because it turns them on and they think about their partners all day. Ask him why he does it if your really worried.

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posted 02-11-2003 09:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chitrick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Trac...Don't believe anybody who tries to tell you that it is "normal" for men to wear women's panties. I work out on a regular basis at a large fitness center. I see dozens of men every day, wearing their skivies in the locker room. I have NEVER seen one single guy with anything but men's jockey's or boxers.
Don't you think that if wearing women's panties were so "normal", then at least a few of these guys would think it were perfectly ok to do it at the club?

I'm sorry for those who admit to it on this topic board...but guys, you are not "normal" in any way, fashion or form! You can talk about how "comfortable" it is, or how much it makes you think of your wife/gf when you are apart...but I think you ought to keep it your little secret. I'm a "real" man; and you aren't fooling me! I wonder...does your wife wear your jock strap to work?

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I have tried on my wife's panties in the bedroom with her help. It's a turn on because it's naughty and "forbidden". We like to try a lot of "forbidden" things. Sex in our car in the mall parking lot, my wife not wearing panties under her skirt, a blowjob in an elevator
are just a few things we've done that we consider naughty.
Panties are as much a prop as a blindfold or ropes. Also, my wife loves to watch me jack off. Usually she will ask me to jack off while she watches because she is tired or not in the mood but she gets so hot watching that she strips and climbs on before I finish.

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Chitrick,just because you havent seen guys at the gym wearing panties doesnt mean alot of guys dont do it. I actually know quite a few who have done it and still to it to this day. Two of them started doing it in high school and the others at other times in there lives. Yes they are REAL men also. We cant define what is normal because we are all different so we all see different things as normal. Think on this fetishes used to be considered a mental disorder and was treated rather harshly in most cases. Now one can see commericals that revel in fetishes. Our society as a whole changes so much that we cant sit here and judge a person because he wants to wear his wife's panties. He isnt hurting anyone and is content to do it.
I read this line is a great book. The book is Come Hither A Commonsense Guide to Kinky Sex by Dr. Gloria G. Brame.
It goes something along the lines of this. What's Normal? The truth is that we dont know what "normal" sex is,at least not in the sense of what is natural for people to do in bed. We dont know how we might behave if we were not pressured to conform to social and religious standards. Since we cant raise children in a vacuum,we cant know/study humans scientifically to see what kind of sex would be normal if we followed only our imaginations and biological urges.
The above can include such things as wearing panties.

Also I have worn Dh's underwear quite often. He dosnt wear a jock strap so I cant honestly say if I would try it on or not...lol

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My sister wore her husbands underwear onetime while she was pregnant,Well she went into laber and forgot she had them on! Long story short version,she was sooo embaressed when the nurses and dr.saw them it never happened again.The only man I ever new that wore womens was a cross dresser.I personaly would say if out in public if something happened to you and were brought to the hospital I would think it would be very embarassing.Just my opinion!! Jerri

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posted 02-12-2003 08:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chitrick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Chitrick,just because you havent seen guys at the gym wearing panties doesnt mean alot of guys dont do it. I actually know quite a few who have done it and still to it to this day. Two of them started doing it in high school and the others at other times in there lives. Yes they are REAL men also. We cant define what is normal because we are all different so we all see different things as normal. Think on this fetishes used to be considered a mental disorder and was treated rather harshly in most cases. Now one can see commericals that revel in fetishes. Our society as a whole changes so much that we cant sit here and judge a person because he wants to wear his wife's panties. He isnt hurting anyone and is content to do it.
I read this line is a great book. The book is Come Hither A Commonsense Guide to Kinky Sex by Dr. Gloria G. Brame.
It goes something along the lines of this. What's Normal? The truth is that we dont know what "normal" sex is,at least not in the sense of what is natural for people to do in bed. We dont know how we might behave if we were not pressured to conform to social and religious standards. Since we cant raise children in a vacuum,we cant know/study humans scientifically to see what kind of sex would be normal if we followed only our imaginations and biological urges.
The above can include such things as wearing panties.

Also I have worn Dh's underwear quite often. He dosnt wear a jock strap so I cant honestly say if I would try it on or not...lol

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Ok...Let me try to explain it in other terms. Underpants that are manufactured with the male gender in mind, are tailored differently than underpants that are manufactured with the female gender in mind. The obvious reason for this, is that males and females are made anatomically different. Common sense would tell us that a male wearing a female's panties would NOT be more comfortable than if he were wearing undies intended for males. That being understood...you have to ask yourself, "why then, would a male want to wear women's panties?" And the only obvious explanation would be that he has some very strange things going on in his head, that the "normal" male does not.

As for "sexual turn-on" or variety while with their mate...I'll maybe buy that. But I won't buy the guys who routinely wear women's panties, as being even remotely "normal" behavior. And I do think we can or should still be able to define the term "normal", based on what society accepts as a "norm".

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My husband said he'd never want to wear my panties. But to each his own. As long as it doesn't hurt the relationship. Or as long as he doesn't start wearing all your clothes and your make-up, then your fine.
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I don't think it is "normal". BUT I don't think it is something to freak out about. Some people like to be "roughed up" in the bedroom too, others don't.

POINT: To each their own

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One night my wife wore her panty hose to bed, they felt so good to run my hands over her legs etc. The next day I went out and bought a pair of Q2 (largest ones), and wore them to bed to sleep in, they are just great, no more cold feet or legs at night. I can get into a cold bed, (we don't heat the room, and sleep with the window open) there is just enough insulation they provide to keep warm, and they don't ride up your legs. I have never wore them out of the house, but there is a co. that sells panty/support hose for men, they have a flap in front for bathroom use. They are heavy weight with a dark color, they just look like long socks.

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posted 02-14-2003 05:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for chitrick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Jim:
One night my wife wore her panty hose to bed, they felt so good to run my hands over her legs etc. The next day I went out and bought a pair of Q2 (largest ones), and wore them to bed to sleep in, they are just great, no more cold feet or legs at night. I can get into a cold bed, (we don't heat the room, and sleep with the window open) there is just enough insulation they provide to keep warm, and they don't ride up your legs.

Jim...My flannel sheets do the same thing on a cold night. And aren't support hose for men, just recommended when there is a problem with circulation and/or varicose veins?

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Ive done it once, one time, havnt tried it since. I dont really know why i havnt tried since, because the one time i did try it, they were soft and silky and very enjoyable. Also gave me an instant erection, i think some of it is mental, it being like someone before said "forbidden". Im not sure if i would wear some all day or anything, i dont think i could get through the day like that. But still it is an enjoyable experience. As for the mens underwear is made for the male anatomy, so how could womens be comfortable. Well all i can say is go to any european beach and check out all those guys in Speedo's. Made for a male, but you dont see them walkin around with uncomfortable looks on their faces, although u might see one on mine for having to see some of them. They are practically the same.
I guess some people are to worried about being a "man", tough guy, typical american male, instead of enjoying life. Example: The Man Show, now if thats the typical american male, i think ill pass, because stupidity rules that world. And im not saying that if you dont wear womens underwear your stupid, just saying if you go around insulting other men, who btw have penises which = man, then your just too interested in conforming to the typical male stereotype.
Anyway hope it made since if not sorry lol. Enjoy the panty fetish, its good times.

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Look guys and gals...The original question was, "Is it "normal" for men to wear women's panties?" All I'm trying to do is explain my thoughts on why I do not believe that wearing women's panties is a "normal" practice for the "average" male. We may see some male posters here, who admit to doing it. We may see some female posters who have known men who do it. But is it a common practice? Absolutely NOT!! That, I believe, answers the original question.

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normal is a state of mind entirely.Men wearing panties is seen in a large part of the male pouplation especially in the U S.I have seen a lot of women helping their man whether married to him or single helping him to have and obtain panties and how to wear correctly.By having both share the same kind of undrewear saves on the household budget as well.No having to keep panties and mens brief seperate any longer.Helping the male dress completly as her other self is pleasing also for both.To each his own is a famous quote that applys mauch to this situation.When a man wants and does wear panties dont critize or comment to the negative untill you have been there yourself.

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Chitrick, me thinks thou doth protest t0o much. Is it just possible that you may have some sexy ladies undies at home that you wear and your feeling a little guilty about it, or some other little oddity that you do in the privacy of your own home. (excuse me for a minute, my leather corset is riding up) (oh no, did I say that out loud) sounds a little homophobic, which may mean something….I don’t know.

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that's definitely not normal...it's just plain wierd

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Well for me its not normal and quiet difficult to understand why a man would ever do it when he has the option to wear his own. Moreover I think the gals panties are not really comfortable for men as they donot have much room for the penis which is there usually in male under wears.

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Look guys and gals...The original question was, "Is it "normal" for men to wear women's panties?" But is it a common practice? Absolutely NOT!! That, I believe, answers the original question.

How would you know? Do you know every guy? Do you even know a majority of guys? I'm guessing not. Have you asked a majority of guys in the world? Country? State? City? Housing edition? I'm guessing not.
So how would you know what "normal" is? (I'm making a gross assumption that there is a "normal.")
It sounds to me, Chitrick, that just because you and your circle of friends haven't encountered it that much, doesn't mean that it doesn't exist- even on a normal basis.
The reason you probably haven't seen it in the locker room, is probably becuase those who DO wear them everyday, on a normal basis, fear persecution and judgement from people like you.
Lighten up - no one is asking you to wear them. Not even try them. Just becauase you don't think it's normal, doesn't automatically decree that it's unusual/abnormal/strange/(insert your favorite loaded word here).

Perhaps you are threatened a bit by men who wear women's underwear? So what if they do? It might be more comfortable, given the right size. I have felt some very soft, silky material that they often use for women's underwear. As a guy, you're limited to = cotton, or cotton, or.... Cotton! (unless you wear boxers, in which case you can also choose silk if you like. but that doesn't fit as close as a pair of briefs.)
So there might be some legitamate reasons for guys to wear them. And it just MIGHT be "NORMAL".

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Trac...Don't believe anybody who tries to tell you that it is "normal" for men to wear women's panties. I work out on a regular basis at a large fitness center. I see dozens of men every day, wearing their skivies in the locker room. I have NEVER seen one single guy with anything but men's jockey's or boxers.
Don't you think that if wearing women's panties were so "normal", then at least a few of these guys would think it were perfectly ok to do it at the club?



I'm sorry , but are you really that naive, or that horrified to think of such a situation?
You are basing your comments on nothing but experience in one select place, as it seems. Of course you're not going to see men do it in a fitness center. Society has a way of banishing people(especially men) who go against their *ideal* of what *is* normal- even though there is no such thing.Most fetishes are lived out in private- for that very reason. Fetishes are abundant in many categories, for straight, gay, bi, trransgendered etc. You don't have to be gay to be into it. But you can bet your life that if you were seen in a fitness center of all places, wearing panties, that you'd be slapped with the unremovable label. Welcome to society. Thanks for enforcing such ludicrous stereotypes/behavior.

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Okay this subject has always cracked me up. I am a woman and woman's pantihose are tight and uncomfortable. I hated them when I was a teen- skinny as a rail and I hate them more now that I am older and fuller. Womens sexy undies are fun when you are dressing the part for a sexy undress but for most of the time everyday wear those silky tiny things are not so comfy.

So how the heck can a big full sized man fit into his wife's undies? I was on vacation recently in Mexico and my friend and I were joking about this subject because all of the men seemed to be wearing the European skimpy bikini, (dorky looking) bathing suits. I said what happens if the guy sees something he likes and he gets an erection? Low and behold we looked up and walking past our table was a man trying to hide his erect penis that looked like it was trying hard to get out his skimpy bathing suit and he was walking funny trying to keep it in. So what gives? Why is this comfortable? My friend and I turned our heads and burst out laughing.

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Normal can easily be defined by looking it up in a dictionary. It seems some people here don't know what it means. It is not a "state of mind" If you go by the definition of normal then a man wearing womens panties isn't normal.

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I was going to stop bothering to contribute to this topic. I don't really understand why so many feel as determined to come down on me, for my input. Someone even suggested that I am chastising anyone (males) who would wear womens panties. All of these folks seem to be very offended with my firm opinion that it is NOT "normal" behavior for a male to want to wear a female's panties.

The argument that it IS "normal" is ludicrous. If it were "normal" or "common" (another word for normal), then wearing them, to be seen by other men in a locker room would be of no concern...would it?

Is my example of a health club locker room too selective for you sceptics? We can add the workplace locker rooms, any public swimming pool dressing rooms, personal acquantances, conversations with numerous friends of the opposite sex, plenty of exposure to buddies in their skivies during military service... My list could continue. But my point is that I probably have a much larger pool to draw from in arguing my point, than anybody here who claims that men wearing panties IS "normal" behavior.

And back to a point I had tried to make earlier...as rediculous as those skimpy European style swim suits look on men...they are still tailored for the male anatomy. Women's panties are NOT! Any male who would wear women's panties, is NOT doing it for comfort sake!

Finally...to answer the question of wheather I myself might have a few pair of panties in my closet (or dresser)... Sorry to deflate your image of me, but no, I do not. My wife wears the panties in our house!

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I don't think it matters if it is normal or not. In a world where half the people you meet have some kind of diagnosed mental disorder (myself included) what is normal anyway?

If the underware are just being worn for comfort then I don't think it is any more a big deal then if he were to wear boxers or men's briefs. If the only issue is that they are yours then get him his own so he's comfortable.

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Three post from WI in a row. Wow!

Do a majority of men wear them it daily? Probably not?
Do a majority of men try it once in their life. Maybe? It is closer, but maybe no?

Are they comfortable size wise? No.
Does there exist comfort other than physical comfort? Yes there is mental comfort.

Here are some definitions of normal:
1) conforming to standard
2) occurring naturally
3) free from mental disorder

Is it normal?

That depends on who sets the standard.

It does occur naturally. So from this point of view some men in society will always want to do this, so it is a normal part of ANY society.

Is it a mental disorder? Again it depends on your definition.

Occurring in nature is a very different definition than what society says is the “norm” but both definitions are valid.

Is it common?
If a million men in the USA do it occasionally that is a small percentage.
But it is enough to be common by the definition that it is known to the community
Or that it appears frequently (but now we have to define frequently)
It is not common if you define common to mean a majority
Both definition are again valid but in this case the “majority” definition is not as used as the “known-to-occur” definition (the same goes in the definition of frequently).

Common can also be defined to mean common to all. This is again a more used definition than the “majority” definition. Using this definition, the only correct statement combining the word common to with the topic seems to be “males do not wear a common type of underwear”

Common can also mean in common between two people.
If your husband wears your panties then it could be argued that by definition it is common between you two.
And by chitrick’s definition common means normal.
So I think chitrick has proved that it is normal?

Just kidding

But as Bill Clinton or my worthless lawyers (or are those now synonyms) will tell you, it is all in the definition.

trac63 probably was not looking for an argument on definitions however.
She probably was confused an wanted opinions on how to react.
I would say ask him about it is good advice.

PS. Is posting on a women's sexual health board normal?
I never hear anyone at the gym or YMCA talking about it?

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I think it's pretty normal for guys to wear them. I don't think I would approve of wearing yours. I'd tell him to buy his own.

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It is NOT normal for guys to wear womans underwear. First of all, what guy can fit into a womans pair of underwear? seconds, thats why he has his own underwear. That is seriously gay, no offense to anyone. It's just really uncalled for, no point in wearing womans underwear.

stop saying it is normal....

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I agree with chitrick! it's not normal no matter how you try to slice it! if it was normal-you wouldn't have posted the question.

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Yikes! I'm sorry but if I saw my boyfriend wearing my panties and some nylons, I would get freaked out to say the least! I would definitely think something is wrong! I've seen some shows where crossdressing was on the way to gaytown. I know that's not with all men. But it is just weird.

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I sooooooooo agree if it was normal why would you feel the need to ask .It is so not normal ."WEIRD"

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posted 05-07-2003 03:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MICKEYGIRL     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All about being creative and doing what turns you and your partner on.What is wrong with your partner wearing your underwear ( could be wearing someone elses) It is what does it for you 2..and what you all are comfortable with..there is no right or wrong in the bedroom..As long as it is comfortable for both of you..Why set the limits. Don't knock it till you try them on.

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Glazier
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posted 05-15-2003 01:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glazier     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,I'm New to this board,and I just wanted to say that I think that If women can wear jeans,boots and the like,It's ok for guy's to wear panties. I don't want to get any trouble started,but panties are alot more comfortable to me than guy's underwear. Nobody knows that you're wearing them except you and your SO. I'm NOT gay,nor do I have A problem with gay people. It may not BE NORMAL ,but there are ALOT of guy's out there who like to be in touch with their feminine side. YEP! Macho on the OUTSIDE,and FEMININE on the INSIDE. They are ALL human! If we would just except people for WHO they are and not WHAT they are I think that this big old cruel world would be A better place to live in. I'm sorry if this makes anyone upset,It's just my thoughts on the subject at hand.

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posted 06-06-2003 12:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SpawnGuy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Glazier--- I totally agree with what you said! You'd be surprised at the number of guys who wear panties instead of regular guys underwear. I've tried it before, and quite frankly, I didn't mind it a bit. Now, though, only once in awhile, I'll slip on a pair of my fiancee's panties while we're making love and she sort of gets turned on by it. For the most part, I just stick to diapers, though.

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posted 06-07-2003 11:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonshade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
screw normal. it's fun and exciting. i love putting on my wife's silky thigh-highs, garters and thong panties. i'm not gay and not abnormal. But I do think it's taboo and probably considered odd by lots of people - but that's part of the attraction. I get a huge turn-on from the look and feel of her lingerie, and the idea that it's very risque for a guy to wear it. I have told her about it. She's not really that interested, but doesn't mind that I am. I think a lot more guys have tried on a pair of panties than you might expect.

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posted 07-07-2003 09:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jo Blo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ugh. I cant imagine a guy wearing womens underwear and clothing. that is such a turnoff for women. the whole reason why women are attracted to men is because of the DIFFERENCE and the masculinity of men! I agree that if you start dabbing into womens clothing, its not a much farther stretch from becoming a drag queen and then eventually just gay. if your man is doing this, i think you should be completely concerned because he doesnt even know who he is himself if he is doing this goofy stuff. its actually pretty crazy. if a guy starts trying on womens underwear and nylons, there's somethin screwy upstairs!

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posted 10-01-2003 03:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for swimmerboy21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I just happened to stumble across this and I thought I would give my oppinion on the subject. First of all... normal is whatever you think it is. No one can say what is normal and what is not normal. I believe that if a guy likes to wear panties, then let him. I have stumbled across a survey that said that something like 61% of all men try on women's panties at least once in there life. If that is true or even close to true, then that means that the majority of men have tried it, and that would qualify as normal, which I don't even think matters. If there are people out there that don't believe that it is normal for men to wear panties, I would encourage you to check out a website called manties.com. I don't think that if it were uncommon for men to wear panties that this person would not still be in business. Also, until you can honestly say if it is comfortable or not, you need to try it. Also, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it has become fairly common for men to wear womens jeans. When I find the article, I will give you the link. Anyway, it is really sad to see how shallow some people really are. Also, I have yet to read an article written by a doctor that says it is unhealthy for this to happen. In fact, most dactors would say that it is perfectly ok and natural as long as it doesn't hurt the relationship. So, if the male enjoys it, and the female doesn't mind, then there is nothing wrong with this. By the way, I wear them too.

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posted 10-01-2003 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fairiegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i personally wouldnt be turned on if my dh startde wearing mine..id prolly laugh. but to each his own if it isnt hurting anyone then who cares? who sets the standards on normal anyways? i think its a lil strange but we all have our quirks and thats his. women wear mens boxers all the time..i dotn see the big deal..if it aint hurting anyone then rock on!

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