posted 03-27-2003 02:20 AM            

What is no laughing matter is that you simply can't let her laugh and enjoy it. My ex hated it when I would start laughing, during regular penetration; he wasn't good, rather, didn't care to be good in a selfish, at the other stuff. Of course, back then I just thought oral sex wasn't didn't do it for me, and foreplay was a bore - so NOT so I found out once he was an ex!). He took offense, it ruined his mood. I would try to explain...you would think that after 18 years he would understand, but he choose to be offended! It was awful. I would try to supress the laughter. But, that simply took away from my enjoyment. I had to hold back, not be free and just feel. Not fun when you feel like laughing...and enjoying yourself. *sigh*

Now I'm in a wonderful relationship with a man who sees that I'm in the midst of pleasure when I burst out laughing. Sometimes it really, REALLY tickles. I can go from moaning and groaning, to a long burst of laughter, and eventually back again....it's so wonderful to simply be able to laugh because his touch is giving me unbearable tickles and pleasure...they are one and the same...to me. (this includes oral and penetration)

And, my laughter is happy laughter. The look in my man's eye when I start laughing and telling him he's tickling me...to keep still for a momment -- gosh it's such a naughty look, his eyes are full of laughter and he so enjoys the momment. And he continues to do whatever it is that is causing me to laugh and feel the tickles! I swear, he's so naughty! **laughter** The tickles eventually change to the other feelings of pleasure...believe me!

The tickles seem to happen after an orgasim, (or two, or three),...so perhaps it could be just being a bit sensitive for a while that causes the tickles.

Really, the laughter probably means, as it does in my case - that it's really, REALLY good...so good it tickles! It is all part of feeling. So, when you hear the laughter, bring the little boy out, and be playful...she's enjoying herself and that's what's important -- that YOU are allowing her to enjoy herself and you are the one giving her that enjoyment!