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fish_man
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posted 03-09-2002 08:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fish_man     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hello,
i am 17 and have never really seen my fathers penis. i always wanted to know if ours are the same or different. just fro curiosity because hes my father and i wanted to see what his penis looks like to see if mine looks the same. its just a curiosity i have always had. im not gay but just really wondering.
how should i go about this?
spying?
asking?
just looking when he doesnts see me?
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posted 03-09-2002 08:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fish_man     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
anything?

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posted 03-10-2002 07:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lance2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Being curious is perfectly normal and healthy. Doesn't imply that you are gay at all, you just want to know how you compare to Dad and I say that is reasonable. Its going to depend on the relationship that you guys have as to how to go about this. If you're are open about sexuality and have talked through stuff, it might be Ok to ask for what you're curious about. If not, then I'd say you're going to have to put yourself in a position where you can take a look. Do you guys work out? Go on camping, hunting or fishing trips? I'm just thinking that a gym or situation where showering or changing clothes in the same area would be one option. Understand that he may feel a bit uncomfortable with being naked just for you to take a look, but if you guys are close and have open communication that may not be a problem. I do remember seeing my dad several times when I was a small kid and then again when I was an adult after he was in a serious car crash and needed some "help" in the hospital. But please don't think that this is a wierd request and get all worried about it...again, I think your request is totally normal and just based in curiousity. Let us know how this turns out!

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If you do see your father's penis, be glad you are 17 and developed. I saw my father's penis only once when I was only 6 or 7 - walked in on him by accident while he was peeing. His penis looked absolutely HUGE compared to mine at the time. I'll never forget it. I think seeing his penis then always made me wonder if I ever caught up to him after puberty. I'm sure I did, but I'll never know for sure.

Chances are your penis looks very much like your dad's, so don't worry about it.

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posted 03-18-2002 06:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cutman7_5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lance2, you saw your fathers penis "after he was in a serious car crash and needed some "help" in the hospital."

you were an adult?

were you both the same? cut/uncut?

[This message has been edited by cutman7_5 (edited 03-18-2002).]

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posted 03-19-2002 05:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lance2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Fair question....I was 25. We were both uncut and he was much bigger than me!

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posted 03-26-2002 09:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sflaboy24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
when i was younger i saw my dads penis all the time. his did look like mine, but i am about 5 soft and i would guess he was about 7 soft. Would be scared to see that thing get hard LOL
it can be very awkward asking him to see his penis, so try to see if u can get any sneek peeks at it. good luck!

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posted 03-27-2002 06:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aveggieboy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Father's Penis ???

Wasn't that the backup band for
Frank Zappa and the Mothers of Invention - late 60's ?

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okay...
i think he will be more sicceptive to shw himsellf if i kinda let him see first. any ideas on how i can do this wihtout looking as an exhibitionist? we dont go to the gym. i think if he sees mine he will more likely let me see his like walk around naked outta the shower etc...
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okay...
i think he will be more sicceptive to shw himsellf if i kinda let him see first. any ideas on how i can do this wihtout looking as an exhibitionist? we dont go to the gym. i think if he sees mine he will more likely let me see his like walk around naked outta the shower etc...
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You're probably right, being more open and OK with being naked around him might allow him to do the same. Do you and your dad have a really open relationship where you talk about all sorts of stuff, especially sexual things? If so, you might be able to mention your curiosity and see where he goes with that. I'd be careful about "asking to see it" but certainly let it be known that you're curious. Or, do you guys fish, camp or do outdoor things together? If so why don't you invite him to take you on a weekend event of that nature, just the two of you. Then, you may be able to get that peek without asking for it or being sneaky about it. What do you think about these ideas? Let me know, maybe we can keep throwing around ideas.

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where really not nature ppl
our holdidays our to mexico ,carribean etc. my dads a lwayer and not a big outdoors person. we like neevr talk about sexuality etc...

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posted 04-30-2002 05:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lance2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry to hear that about not talking about sexuality and stuff, my dad didn't do that with me either. So how bout sports? Is it possible for the two of you to travel together to an out of town sporting event for a weekend or something?

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posted 04-30-2002 11:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for czechTHnet     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
this is going to be pretty off-the-wall, but what the heck: the tought occurred to me today - would it be too racey to print one of our more concise responses on this topic, and leave it where your dad might run across it? I have an idea he might just whip it out, and ask why you didnt just ask sooner, yourself! what do some of you other people think?

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Don't you guys think its kind of odd if the father finds out if the son wants to see his Shlong??? He would really think that something is happening with his son. What would he think?... I know we are all human, and curious...but I cant imagine myself asking my dad to "whip it out" as stated by the replies before mine.

The only thing I can suggest is go and check out medical/documentary sites( NOT PORN) of average penises. I am not familiar with any, but have seen in some posts. Gotta admit when I was young, I thought of this too, but never would I approach him...I just said to myself "When I grow bigger, It has to look like his"...So dont put doubts in your fathers head, they have a lot to worry about, with you growing up already so fast.

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posted 05-04-2002 07:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lance2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think the guy is curious, but more than that it seems that he wants to bond with his father and have him spend more time with him teaching him and talking with him about sexual stuff. Seeing his fathers penis is just part of a bigger picture. It isn't something I would have asked for, but in some cases this is really common and helps guys be Ok with who they are and very comfortable with themselves. I'd just like for Dad to spend some time with his son at an age when he really needs it!

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I remember that as a young child, on "shower nights" my dad would herd my brothers and me into the bathroom, to get everyone clean in one fell swoop. He'd often shower with us, and at that age I was almost horrified at his size; sure that my dad was almost abnormal. But he's the only adult I'd seen nude below the waist, so that was my reference. And I'll never forget walking into my parents' room late one morning as Dad slept in. Lying there on his back, in all his glory, boxers providing no cover, I got my first look at how I'd look in later years - 'was pretty shocking. But I have to agree with Lance: perhaps the original post speaks of some deeper issues or longings.

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I also grew up in an open home where I frequently saw my father naked. He only had sons, so walking around naked in the morning as he got ready for work was not an unusual sight. I remember as a child and young teenager admiring his manhood and size. I was impressed and hoped to some day resemble him. Well, time passed and soon I began developing, getting body hair, and my penis and testicle grew. My penis today resembles his in almost every way. I still find it a bonding experience to be nude with him whether it be at home when our wives are out or at the local gym. When he visits our town, I get him a visitor's pass to my gym and after a good work out we hit the sauna and shower together. Its a great bonding experience that I have done with my two sons also. My sons are 16 and 14 and have grown up in the same atmosphere.

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That is so awesome, what an incredible example for your sons. I bet they have a healthy opinion of sexuality and about what it really means to be a man. Thanks for sharing that with us...wish my dad had been that way and so open with me.

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posted 05-25-2002 10:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pimpsta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Everyone,
I've seen my dads penis before. But he was very "bushy" so I coudln't compare. Great boards, a little too many though!
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Wish my father and family was open. I am 25 now, never have seen another penis. Don't know if I am small or big. I measure 6 inches erect, used to be 7 inches about age 18. If my father had any interest in me, like explaining about sex and answering questions, I might not always feel inferior with not having anything to compare to. Am I normal size, don't give me size doesn't matter. What size are you guys out there? I am not gay, just want to feel more comfortable. Never had the guts to use a urinal, afraid someone might look. I think that its great that a father should take showers with their sons, there is no ashamed feelings, everything is "OUT in the open" Also when things happen in puberty, things would be easier to talk about. In my case never talked to about these things.
Another question. Have never been in a locker room, went to a private school. Should you have an erection so you won't get picked on about size, or would it come off as you are gay being with other men? Also, when one masturbates, is it an orgasm when the erect penis pumps out liquid with gel like lumps in it, or is their more to come later, I am a virgin. Thanks for any help for this ignorant person

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Welcome, glad you're here! You're not an ignorant person, just like me you had no one to tell you things or answer questions. My dad never did any of that with me. So, the average size for an adult male penis is said to be just a bit over 5.5 inches, so you're above average in that department. As to showers with other guys, yep in HS and college. Back then I hated it, had all the questions you're asking and really bad issues with my body, overweight, penis size etc. Now, I don't worry about it at all, I've learned that no one there is worried about how I look or how big my penis is. Sure, the occasional erection happens and folks just accept it as being a guy, those things happen and we can't control them. As to your last question, the orgasm is the intensely pleasureable feelings that take place. The ejaculation is when semen is released from your penis and yes, the jelly-like yellowish fluid in the ejaculation is actually the sperm cells. The whitish creamy fluid is called ejaculatory fluid, it just helps with the process. Hope this helped, feel free to write back with other questions or comments!

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Thanks Lance, I always wondered about penis size, just with the flacid size was longer. Anyway, thanks.

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I to grew up in one of those homes where everyone stayed coverd up. My Dad never talked to me about sex, I leared form neightborhood boys. As for seeing my Fathers Penis, I did, and quite by accident. Only one time. I would have been very happy to have had the male bonding experience with my Dad, but it never happened. I know now I missed alot. I had two daughters so...no male bonding there.
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I grew up in a home where I didn't really see my father's penis very often - maybe a few times when I was very young but definitely not as I got older. The same goes for my dad seeing my penis, definitely not once I got to puberty. Now that I think about it though, I kind of wish we could have been more comfortable with our bodies around each other. This would have definitely provided a bond with my dad and made me feel more manly for us to be naked together. Although he never said it directly, this kind of gave me the impression that there is something shameful about having a penis and balls. I've read somewhere (maybe on this board?) about a guy and his dad who always have great quality time together at the gym and especially after their workout when they go in the sauna naked and have some great man-to-man talks. Now that I'm grown I don't know if I'll ever have the chance to be naked with my own dad again, but I would like that. And I definitely will make a point that my boys (if I have any) experience nudity with me, since that's something important that I missed out on. Any one else feel the same as me about this?

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I believe is perfectly fine to be curious about your father penis. I seen my dad's penis a lot of time not because I was curious, but because my dad doesn't closes the bathroom door at all and my room is past the bathroom. And about the size, i think we have the same size.

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Just a interesting note to add to this...

The psychologist Freud theorized that when young boys often came to fear their fathers and have feelings of inadequacy because the father's penis looked so much bigger to the small child. Felt it could have been a source of why men always want a bigger penis. Because they compare their penis to the exaggerated image they had when they were a child, their penis always seems not big enough. Kinda interesting...

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i only see my dads sometimes when he is peein, an it is HUGE compared to mine! i never saw him hard, but can only imagine how big it is when he is hard! mine is realy short when i'm soft, an 5 1/2" when i'm hard.

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Well I just want to say for those of you who do have a father that is very nice to have that kind of relationship with them, we men are known to have a hard time expressing and showing our feelings, I did not grow up with my father so seeing him nude was out of the question, but I did get to see my uncle a few times and I must say that we both do look the same, except that he has more thickness than I do but I have more length, but everything else is the same. Growing up in a house full of woman I got to see my mom and aunt naked more than any of the men in my family.

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I have no father and I have a lot of problems as a result of that. I'll save all the rest for an appropriate thread but one that fits here is a major curiosity about the male body, and a STRONG desire for open male bonding in my life. I still wish I'd meet someone, even online, who could be like, I guess you could say, a mentor or a big brother, I don't know. Someone who is older than me, who has experienced more than me, who can answer questions I have about sexual things and other things; maybe i'll make a thread one day soon asking if theres any guys willing to do that for me cuz I think it might make a difference in my life, even at 15.

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Please becarefull of online preditors. There are men out there who will hurt you. Go to your local Church and find a mentor, or big brothers where people are checked out.

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Please becarefull of online preditors. There are men out there who will hurt you. Go to your local Church and find a mentor, or big brothers where people are checked out.

hey thanks for the concern, but i think i'll be ok. i would never give away information that was too personal. chances are no one would do it anyway but if i found someone i'd make sure i was very careful. thanks again

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I think the best way to deal with this curiosity is to just ask him if you can see it. Your father is one of the few men in the world that you can trust and part of that should be being able to confide in him with regards to sexuality. I have a great relationship with my father in reagrds to being able to talk to him about that sort of stuff and it only came around after I asked him about masturbation. He was more than happy to explain it all to me and was very supportive of me during puberty. We have even sat down together and jacked off over a porno...... If you ask me an open relationship is a good relationship. Especially when it comes to family!!!

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I think thats great that you have an open relationship with your father but i don't know if i could go as far as to jerk off with him. I think it would be better for any guy to do it with there peers there is a limit as to what you should do with your father but that is just my opinion.

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My father is more like a mate/peer to me than he is a father figure now. He is only 16 years older than me, some of my actual mates are older than he is!!!! I didn't feel uncomfortable in any way shape or form and neither did he. We weren't watching each other, we were watching the porno...............We were just wanking infront of each other. If everyone thinks wanking is a natural thing to do, then why should I be shy to do it infront of him???

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My father is more like a mate/peer to me than he is a father figure now. He is only 16 years older than me, some of my actual mates are older than he is!!!! I didn't feel uncomfortable in any way shape or form and neither did he. We weren't watching each other, we were watching the porno...............We were just wanking infront of each other. If everyone thinks wanking is a natural thing to do, then why should I be shy to do it infront of him???

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My father is more like a mate/peer to me than he is a father figure now. He is only 16 years older than me, some of my actual mates are older than he is!!!! I didn't feel uncomfortable in any way shape or form and neither did he. We weren't watching each other, we were watching the porno...............We were just wanking infront of each other. If everyone thinks wanking is a natural thing to do, then why should I be shy to do it infront of him???

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Because this is your father not your equal. if you want to jack off do it with your friends. you should show some respect

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Get with the times buddy......

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this has nothing to do with the times of today why would anyone want to jerk off with there father doing the same its one thing to go to the gym and bond and maybe shower together but to actually jerk off i can't believe anyone would do that whats the survey on this one guys maybe am i wrong or should he do it with his friends not his parent please give your thoughts

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