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lost48 Newbie Posts: 2 From: Registered: Aug 2003	posted 08-25-2003 09:36 AM I need to hear from fellow menopausals. I have been having wierd symptoms, I am 48, occasional hot flashes, chills, missed periods, weird taste in mouth, head aches for about a year. I have been divorced for 10 years and celebate during that time. Now I met an older guy and i enjoy our love making, but rarely have an orgasm. Masterbating does bring on orgasms but they are weaker than I used to have when I was young, and i am quite dissapointed with them. I vaguely (smile) remember earth shaking orgasms and now they are like a low rumble. I am wondering if this is phyological, just my age, whether it is temporary. I have tried just to relax and not worry about it, havent mentioned it to him cause I dont want him to think its his fault. I think its me. should I just accept that I have missed the best years of my sexual life? Does this happen to everyone? Any hope or suggestions or just consolation? IP: Logged
Monday1954 Senior Member Posts: 142 From:Huntsville Registered: Jul 2003	posted 08-25-2003 07:40 PM No you haven't missed the best years of your life - you are just tense because it is a new relationship. I don't have the frequency of desire I used to but the quality of the orgasm is the same or even better than it used to be. Give yourself some time, I used to worry a lot about not wanting to have sex as much as I used to and started dwelling on that, it does put a damper on your love life if you have something worrying you in the back of your mind. Get some Ky or something called Silke (my favorite) and soon you will be back to your old self, sort of. I did go on HRT in 2000 and that might have helped some. Not everyone here likes HRT and I guess you have to weigh the considerations for yourself. By the way, I was 49 yesterday. IP: Logged
Mz Migraine Member Posts: 71 From:Cherry Hill, NJ, USofA Registered: Jul 2003	posted 08-25-2003 08:18 PM If the KY doesn't do it for you, then try Olive Oil. Better yet, check out a couple of porno films. It could be him. Don't be shy about talking to him. Make sure he is stimulating that clit gurl! If I may be so blunt............if the isn't doing the job, the tongue just may be better. Good Luck. :love2 :love2 [This message has been edited by Mz Migraine (edited 08-25-2003).] IP: Logged
JeaneT Newbie Posts: 2 From:michigan Registered: Aug 2003	posted 08-27-2003 10:33 PM Womens Testosterone levels sometimes have alot to do with with sexual desires. You maybe a little low in your levels of testosterone. Check with a good health food store and see if they can suggest a natural testosterone suppliment. It also helps your memory and concentration. Even a low dose of it may make a big difference for you. I know it did for me. Good luck! Don't throw in the towel just yet! Jeane IP: Logged
lost48 Newbie Posts: 2 From: Registered: Aug 2003	posted 09-02-2003 07:41 AM JeaneT...what was your suppliment called? I didnt know there were natural suppliments. IP: Logged

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