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posted 02-23-2003 08:25 PM            

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alright, here's my deal. i'm 18 years old, and my girlfriend is 17. we are eachother's first gf/bf ever, so we've been taking things kind of slow. i know a thing or 2 about sex and sex lives, cause i've seen my share of porn hah, hey i'm a guy what do you expect, but she isn't too familiar with anything. anyway, she went to give me head last night. she would go down, suck for a bit, come back up, kiss me a little, go back down, come back up, etc etc. now here's the thing, every time she would come back up, she'd have this look that she was disgusted, almost like she had a disgusting taste in her mouth or something, she didnt know i could see her look, cause she thought my eyes were closed, but i saw. what's with that??? do dicks taste that bad hah? or was it something else??? did i do something wrong? i felt kind of embarrassed.

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posted 02-24-2003 11:27 AM            

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Did you return the favor?

If she did not enjiy it that should be the last time you talk her into it.

Go down on her?

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posted 02-24-2003 12:12 PM            

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Yeh, and did you wash first?? The thing is, if you're not cut then a substance called smegma is produced... not too sure what it does but it's meant to taste quite bad and some guys get quite a bit.

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posted 02-24-2003 05:56 PM            

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i never pressure her to do anything, that was the first time she's done it. well actually, she went down to do it once before, totally voluntarilly, and then realized she didn't know what she was doing and started to cry. of course i comforted her, etc. everything was all good...i told her that she never had to do anything she didnt want, i like just being with her, etc etc. but yeah anyway, no i didnt "wash" my penis after taking a piss...i wasn't expecting to get head. i am circumsized though, so that wasn't the problem. maybe i should wash after pissing more often. i guess that was the problem...maybe. any other thoughts?

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posted 02-25-2003 11:27 AM            

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Just a thought, and it really depends on your relationship with your gf and what type of person she is but you could just tell her she didn't really look as if she was enjoying it and if she doesn't want to then she shouldn't feel obliged or anything, but is there anything you can do to make it better (like was there a specific problem, taste, anything like that).

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posted 02-26-2003 09:41 AM            

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I agree with Matt - just come out and ask her. It's funny but when I was in school I always felt like the guys thought us girls were born with knowing how to give good head. Wrong! It takes umm…time and practice to be really good at it. I was lucky and had a boyfriend that was patient and helped me in what felt good or he'd say "here, try this"

My husband's semen doesn't really taste good but he drinks a lot and I'm not a drinker so to me it tastes sorta sour. When we first got together I always swallowed but not I don't swallow all the time. But he don't care as long as he gets one.

Maybe she's just nervous and you mistook her "am I doing this right?" look for a "look of disgust". But like Matt said just ask. She might be embarrassed that you ask but it will relieve the nervous tension she might have to perform.

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posted 02-26-2003 07:43 PM            

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What Matt and Betty said was good. Ask her about it for sure. She very well could be embarrassed. The fact is though, that very, very few girls actually enjoy giving a guy head. I've overheard many a girl talking to her girl friends about how much giving head sucks (no pun intended). I mean think about it: you balls sweat and therfore don't smell that great and cum is the consistancy of snot and from what I hear from girls doesnt taste all that yummy. But, just like almost everyone, most girls want to please their guy and they know giving head is pretty darn pleasing so they bite the bullet (once again, no pun intended) and give head anyway. But, don't be suprised if their facial expressions reveal their true feelings. But don't feel bad for her either, if she's doing it it's because she wants to please you. So the thing to do is return the favor, which, very similarly, isn't that fun for us guys for similar reasons (i.e. sweatiness, taste, etc.). But that's just how life works. Sometimes its more important how the other person feels...Would you other girls and guys out there with experience agree with me?

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posted 02-26-2003 07:59 PM            

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Maybe she went down on you too deeply, and she was choking on it? Just a thought. If she went all the way down, she could have easily triggered the gag reflex at the back of her throat, and she would certainly have a disgusted look on her face then.

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