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Old 04-10-2008, 03:30 AM   #4
tyleza
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Re: I can't believe I'm asking this post-op question...

Hi. I just had disectomy and fusion (C5/C6) 3 days ago. My boyfriend spent the night with me the first two nights. The first night, I had no "interest". The second night I felt like a woman on a mission (it had been a while).

Without getting too graphic, I found that being on top ... both 'before' and 'during' was the most comfortable position. During the 'before', I rested my head on his stomach. I had total control of my neck.

It sounds like you and your hubby have a loving relationship. Let him know you NEED to be in control for the first few times - it will help you get more into it. He may even like it (~wink).

Best of luck (and fun) to you and yours.