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Old 08-08-2008, 03:28 PM   #4
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Re: Man wanting to take on the female role ...

I feel so sorry for your friend. 35 years is a very long time to live with somebody who is not she thought he was. I think that the husband has a very complex problem and this is nothing your friend will figure out in a few days. I am sorry that it took so long for her to get this information about her husband. She needs people to talk to until she gets over the worst chock. Maybe she should go to a counselor a few times to try to decide what to do next. Depending which city she lives in, there are support groups for this kind of problem. Look on line if you can find something in your area. Again, I am so sorry about so many years of deception.