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Old 11-10-2009, 02:39 PM   #2
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Re: i need help coping with the loss of my husband

I am here for you having lost my husband 4 years ago. You have to take time to heal and grieve -- to do anything else is not healing.

How old was your husband?
How old are you?
How many years were you together?
Have children? If so, how many? and what are their ages?

My husband was 48 when he passed away of a massive heart attack 2 hours after being released from a hospital stay for having a minor one.

It does get easier but you never, ever forget. I cry at the drop of a hat.
My dad who passed also comes to be in my time of need and we talk but my husband tried and when he showed himself to me, I started crying so uncontrollably. He said he'd come back another time when I wouldn't do that to him because it upset him so.

What can I do to help? Except let you know that others are here for you, been through it and tell you that you are not going nuts, you will get through this.

Please write and answer the questions above so I can do more for you.