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Old 10-29-2011, 04:09 AM   #2
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Re: How do I get the courage to leave my husband?

It's difficult without knowing your circumstances. Do you have a job? Do you have money of your own? If no to either of these then you have to start saving and you need to have a job.

If yes, it's a bit easier. First get some support from your friends. Find yourself a place to live, then tell him, then go. If your mind is made up and you're sure, don't waste time discussing things with him, because that'll be upsetting.

What you've got with him isn't what you want, so leaving can only be better. It's fun having things how you want them in your new place, not having to consider anyone else, and living your life how you want to.

Good luck and stay strong.

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