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Old 08-10-2013, 01:37 PM   #6
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Re: I don't know what to do about my husband anymore! Need advice!

I am so sorry. I encourage you to seek some help for yourself. There are some wonderful people trained to help families through these kinds of situations. By educating yourself, you will become empowered to take the steps necessary to give yourself and your marriage the best chances for a positive outcome. Anything you can do to avoid experiences like his last rock bottom.

If he sees you taking steps forward to get healthy, he will take you seriously. It is easy to become a co dependent without ever meaning to. Thankfully, we all can learn how to free ourselves from that role. and best help both parties.