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    Old 04-25-2001, 03:04 PM   #1
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    Girls said they'll go with me if I lose spots & acne.

    Sniff... it's not fair, girls were talking about me. <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/frown.gif"> They were saying how cute I am but the spots and bumps make me ugly.They weren't being mean they were saying it as it is.Be honest guys, if you had clear skin you wouldn't want to go with somebody that got spots all around there face and bumps.Honestly I say I couldn't do it.... I feel bad saying it but it would embarrass me.That's how they feel.They said they were sorry but they didn't want to hurt me in the long run.I just have those sick spots..... no new bumps..... the damn spots..... they said if the bumps are gone I have to lose those ugly scars.SCARS!!!!! DAMN YOU!!!!! <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/mad.gif"> . Sorry <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/frown.gif">

     
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    Old 04-25-2001, 03:08 PM   #2
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    Re: Girls said they'll go with me if I lose spots & acne.

    Isn't hydroxy acid good for spots?

     
    Old 04-25-2001, 05:28 PM   #3
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    Re: Girls said they'll go with me if I lose spots & acne.

    Kiddo you wouldn't want to be with girls
    who have such ugly, judgemental personalities
    anyway.. Stay positive..

    --=Infinity

     
    Old 04-25-2001, 05:47 PM   #4
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    Re: Girls said they'll go with me if I lose spots & acne.

    hey dude, about those girls who gives a flying f-ck what they think? i've adapted a new philosophy on some stuff that i found comes in handy quite often in life. I don't care. if someone doesnt like something i'm doing, and i do, i dont care what they think. if i hit on a girl and she doesnt like me, oh well it sucks but i wont let it get to me cuz i dont care. (im still testing this one out cuz i havent got dissed yet with that) but thats cuz i havent tried <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/wink.gif"> honestly with people like that who cares? they just sound like stuck up bi-ches to me. i'd go out with a girl if her acne was as bad as mine (which thank god is actually not so bad now.) so just dont let it get to you, tell them whats on your mind call them stupid bi-ches and that they'd be lucky to have a guy treat 'em as well as you would, sh-t like that. good luck

     
    Old 04-25-2001, 05:57 PM   #5
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    Re: Girls said they'll go with me if I lose spots & acne.

    we all want to get rid of our spots, but dont do it for some stupid girls, if you ever do get rid of your spots, i hope they all hit on you, and you flat out ignore them becuase you can do better ps i found that Neutrognas multi vitamin treatment works the best, even better than fade cream which can lead to more breakouts

     
    Old 04-25-2001, 06:45 PM   #6
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    Re: Girls said they'll go with me if I lose spots & acne.

    Thats the way kids act. When you get mature, youll see that the most important quality of someone is whats inside their head, not whats on their face.

     
    Old 04-25-2001, 07:27 PM   #7
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    Re: Girls said they'll go with me if I lose spots & acne.

    hey there pimpleface...You have a sense of humor. trust me, developing a unique character will serve you well in your future. also, when the wheels are turned around, when your skin is clear...be compassionate to the girl who could lose 10 lbs and to all the other girls who score high in personality and not as high in looks.

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    Old 04-25-2001, 07:33 PM   #8
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    Re: Girls said they'll go with me if I lose spots & acne.

    Well my Jr. Prom is on Friday and I am not going because of my acne. There is a really cute girl that sits right next to me, I have asked her for notes and stuff just to let her know Im around, but these pimples make me so uncomfortable. I know that as soon as I get my lisence and rid of this acne I am definitly going to ask her out. Its not even that Im concerned about what she thinks, its her friends. She is a pretty quiet girl, just like me, and her friends are a little loud, just like mine. So I do not want her to be embarassed when they ask "so who are you going to the prom with"? "That kid over there"? "With the zits"? "Um, yea". Then thats really embarassing..I also just dont want her to say yes just not to hurt my feelings, I really like her..and the first thing that I thought of when I first saw her wasnt sex so I know shes different!! AND ALL YOU GIRLS THAT SAY OHHH, NOOO IT DOESNT MATTER...BULL*HIT, NOT POST STUPID *HIT LIKE THAT.<p>[This message has been edited by JMP (edited 04-25-2001).]

     
    Old 04-25-2001, 07:54 PM   #9
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    Re: Girls said they'll go with me if I lose spots & acne.

    you know jmp, you could have a facial before prom, or, even a mild glycolic acid peel if it's not too late. that'll clear you right up.

     
    Old 04-25-2001, 08:49 PM   #10
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    Re: Girls said they'll go with me if I lose spots & acne.

    Thanks guys I feel better. Those girls who said that always say they have a boyfriend that goes to another school and hardly talks about them... hmmmmm, I wonder who are they to judge, plus they don't look cute themselves anyway that's why it didn't get to me! LOL <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/tongue.gif"> Plus alot of boys called them stupid nasty bi**** and no other girls can stand them in this school.

     
    Old 04-25-2001, 09:43 PM   #11
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    Re: Girls said they'll go with me if I lose spots & acne.

    BELIEVE me. Acne doesn't matter to the real girls out there.

    I know exactly how you feel. I've always been deemed "pretty" and "hot", but I always feel like I don't add up. I had a really good friend in highschool who just suddenly broke out REALLY badly over the summer. He had huge cysts everywhere, it was extremely severe. And he still managed to be one of the most good looking, most popular, and nicest guys out there. He was just so awesome! But one of my friends said about my friend that was dating him..."She's going out with HIM? He's gross." I asked for an explanation, and she said, "Well...you know...those spots."

    *explodes*

    He still managed to date my friend, who is extremely beautiful. Even with those "spots". And he still managed to be nice and really really cute and smart. Even with those "spots". He went on Accutane the same time I did, and now even those "spots" are gone, he's still as great as he's always been.

    Girls don't care about acne. And I'm hoping guys don't care about it, either. From what I've found, most don't. The ones worth dating don't. I know, to us, it seems like our entire self worth is on our faces. Don't let it be that way.

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    Old 04-25-2001, 11:13 PM   #12
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    Re: Girls said they'll go with me if I lose spots & acne.

    The only reason I highly reject this guy in my class with cystic acne everywhere, and other types of breakouts, is because he makes it so obvious that hes uncomfortable with himself. It doesnt help to wear a hooded sweatshirt when its 90 degrees outside and try and use that to hide neck cysts. I dont like self-concious guys, it just ruins everything. They start thinking that youre not into them anymore and get whiny all the time. It gets irritating, and after a while you have to dump them because there isnt any fun in the relationship.<p>[This message has been edited by AngelaMDarling (edited 04-26-2001).]

     
    Old 04-26-2001, 12:09 AM   #13
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    Re: Girls said they'll go with me if I lose spots & acne.

    i've yet to know... or better yet, SEE a good lookin girl go out w/ a guy w/ acne or acne scars. (celebrities/sports athletes, etc excluded).

    it may be very noble to state that what matters is on the inside and not the outside, but when it really comes down to it, everyone wants to have a good looking, sexually attractive partner. would you girls date igor the hunchback from notre dame (or whatever his name is) if he was the greatest most fantabulous person in the whole wide world if he still looked like he does?

    it definitely wont hurt if you saved up to get some treatments on your acne/scars... but not necessary for you to enjoy your life. i just think you will have a much more 'active' and much more enjoyable lifestyle if you didnt have to deal w/ acne scars.

    and before anyone replies to my post as being shallow and superficial, keep in mind that we are all here to try and find solutions to acquire/maintain a healthy and attractive appearance free from acne and acne scars. if personality and inner well-being was such an important factor, i doubt this board would get this much traffic.

    just my 0.02

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