Hi Steve...
and welcome to the family

Sorry the reason your here, but we are all here to help and support everyone. I have an ileostomy, but its a temporary one. Ive had it since Feb this year to be reversed next month. Yes u will be able to still do everything as before and really its no big hassle. My only problem is self esteem I hate the look of it and my body now

but apart from that everything I used to do I still do now.
You may have leaks at some time, but even those you can deal with.. U become very aware of it and know when things arent quite right. Also I cant eat popcorn or peanuts but apart from that most other things are fine. Also be aware of diahorea,,, as this can happen quickly but my doctors gave me pills for when the stool gets too loose.
Goodluck with the surgery and keep us posted.
Take care
Maz