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Emotional abuse and Codependency


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Old 03-01-2017, 01:50 AM   #1
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Emotional abuse and Codependency

Hopefully someone can help me sort this out. I feel that my wife was verbally/emotionally abusive. Many occasions occurred where she would manipulate situations and gaslight, say very aggressive things (I never do anything, I'm a horrible person, etc) and learning that I have codependency makes me ponder if it didn't happen?

I have several memories of my soon to be ex wife doing things as well as treating everyone like they're her slaves but now I'm wondering if I'm giving up something that could work. I'm not sure if it's due to my loneliness, or my loss of reality due to the emotional abuse.

She's been getting help now and admits some of it but seems like a different person. She had always been able to manipulate people and became aggressive if people didn't do what she wanted. She had tried to lie and steer our couples therapy by saying the week went really good when in reality, we fought the entire time and she tried to kick me out.

 
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