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Old 10-19-2007, 12:56 PM   #1
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I lost my husband on 9/11/07 ! I posted about it before.
Now I found out that he let his insurance policy laps and now no money to pay the funeral bill.
On top of everything else,I have a huge funeral bill and no money to pay for it. I'm trying to find a place to move b/c I can't afford to stay here for long. I can't get a job b/c I live too far out of town and can't get to work in the winter. I found a small trailer to move into but can't move until the house is sold.
I am so depressed and mad,I don't know what to do.
What are we supposed to do when we are left like this???

It makes me mad b/c he made big money for many yrs. and now there is nothing left b/c he used the money unwisely!
PS I am almost totally deaf and just had Cochlear Implant surgery before he died.

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Old 10-19-2007, 01:48 PM   #2
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I'm so sorry for your loss and your situation. If you have no money, then you can't pay the bill. That's just a fact. Are there any other assets in his estate that can be attached? This is why it's so important that spouses be aware of all the important business that goes on in the home so when something unfortunate like this happens, you're not left "out in the cold". Just tell the funeral home and any other bill collectors that there is no money. There really isn't anything else to do. Hang in there.

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