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I can't seem to move on. Any advice?

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Old 10-31-2007, 12:23 AM   #1
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charlotte28 HB User
Unhappy I can't seem to move on. Any advice?

My best friend in the world and boyfriend who I was madly in love with was murdered five years ago suddenly. I was suicidal for three years and the last couple of years have been okay(prozac) but I still am sooo sad. I haven't dated nor have any desire to date anyone. I have no one to talk to because no one I know has gone through anything like this. I can't tell my family because it only makes them sad and worried. I break down at least once a day and I still have that pain in my stomach that won't go away. I am so sad and heartbroken and everyone seems to think I should have "moved on" by now. Even his family seems to be moving on and doing really good. I am falling apart more each day and sometimes just want to give up. Only I would never put any one I love through this kind of pain. Please anyone who has any advice on where to go, who to talk to, what to do. I am uncomfortable just being alive. Five years...will I always be miserable?

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Old 11-18-2007, 09:52 PM   #2
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Re: I can't seem to move on. Any advice?

I know the feeling. My best friend was killed 6 years ago in a car crash. I did meth to take the feeling away for about 4 years. I ended up pregnant at 17. That was when I quit doing drugs. But coming out of that I realized that all that pain is still there. I think about how she would be living her life today. I named my daughter after her. As for how to move on, I don't know. It sucks when everyone around you has moved on and you just can't. You can't talk to them about it anymore. you just sit and think about them in your head. Don't kill yourself. That would just make everyone who loves you just as sad. Live for him. See things he didn't get to see. When you die someday, go to heaven with all those stories to tell him. Don't give up.

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