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Old 12-08-2008, 05:20 PM   #1
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My husband tragically drowned 2 weeks ago. We were together 23 years.
I feel hopeless and constantly yearn for him. I and my son are the ones in the family that have medical issues while my husband never even took an aspirin. He just loved life and us and his fishing. He loved the water and ironically drowned while coming back from a boat check on his dinghy. Noone knows why or how it happened, it just did. I am sick to my stomach and my son is walking around like a zombie. Life sometimes just has no meaning and what was the reason for this? My brother also passed away 3 months ago from a heart attack. Why is tragedy following us around? I feel so alone and lost. The time spent with me seems surreal and almost like it never happened.
I will be joining a bereavement group since I don't see any other way to go forward. I need the help.
I would love for any help.

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Old 03-07-2010, 11:55 AM   #2
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Re: lost

HI BECKY15 i replied to your page about you losing your husband to a boating accident im very sorry and tryed to help you by posting a mesage on your page my name on this sight is ashdean .i said that you and your son should stand strong and help each other and that i believe that time for us on earth is diferant to time above and one day when how time comes we will meet how loved ones again so i believe. i to am going through grief over my wife dying 6 weeks ago i am new to all this and only joind this sight on fri 5th 2010 when i looked at your page on that friday you wanted to talk to me and put your email address down when i flicked the page i lost this email if you still wish to talk i will be happy to we could talk about how grief its very hard in life to bare the pain and how we realy feel may be i could help you if you want i have a thread under ashdean on grief & loss .....take care of you and your son best wishes ashdean.

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