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Old 02-20-2010, 04:04 PM   #1
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need advice please

Hello , i would greatly appreciate any advice am new to this situation. I am dating a widower of 11 months. We have known each other 32 years an dated in high school an also in our twenties never anythng special just liked being around each other. We each married others him 14 yrs me 22 years. His wife died of overdose in march. His marriage had been difficult for 7 or so years with dealing with the abuse. During the last year or so i was caregiver to my mom an my cousin who was like my brother. My mom passed june an cousin sept i was with them both wen they took there last breaths. That is our background for the last year. We ran into each other at mutual friends aftr his wife passed. He called me an we started really spending time talking all last summer. Not just about our losses just life also. We went swimming an stuff wen we had free time. We were are both going through grief i know an questioned everything over an over. We became romantically invokved an developed feelings for each other very deep feelings. His daughter is having a very hard time with it. Which i am totally sympathetic to. I miss my mom very much an i had her much longer. She is in counseling he has also seen a counselor an i am going thro grief life counseling. So at this time i dont see him unless she is not there an thats usually once week. He says he wants be with me for another 20 or so years watever time we have left here. Any ideas if is good keep me away from her for now as she was very upset wen she realized we were a couple. He talkd to her about it. Any advice would b great. Thanks all an sorry so long

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