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Old 05-03-2011, 05:47 AM   #1
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Question What now?

My grandpa died from a heart attack 2 weeks before my dad died of melanoma cancer. My other grandpa died for 13 mins and was in the hospital for my dads funeral. Now my grandma has cancer in her lungs, stomach, and neck and my grandpa that was revived has kidney and liver failer. Now they think he has bleeding in his colon. He has three hernias they want to work on but wont cause his heart isnt strong enough. i have a feeling they`re gonna go around the same time. I really don`t know if i feel anything about it. It`s been to soon for me to get over my dad. I just kinda feel numb towards it. I don`t exactly know what to do next.

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Old 05-03-2011, 08:31 PM   #2
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Re: What now?

Oh dear Izzy, you sure do have alot on your plate.

I am sooo sorry to hear about you dad and grandpa's deaths and now having to take on the emotions of knowing that you will be losing 2 more grandparents.

You must be feeling so numb and overwhelmed and I just wanted to let you know that I am sorry and am here to listen if you need to vent.

I lost my dear brother almost two years ago and was barely even through that when I lost my mom.

I still am having a tough time of it and missing them dearly.

Try your best to take care of yourself in little ways and if need be seek out a grief counselor or bereavement group who understand what you are going through.

I have found in my life, that it is such a comfort to be with others who understand what you are going through.

Nobody understands a loss unless they have lost a loved one like you.

I hope that you are hanging in there and if there is anything I can do to help make it easier, please let me know.

((((HUGS))))) ~ Ivory

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