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Old 08-19-2011, 03:29 AM   #16
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Re: Lost parents at ages 9 & 10

hi, i did have god in my life but suffered so much spiritual abuse in church its left me not in a good place with god at moment the abuse as made me seriously ill. i did try so hard to protect my sister and the rest of my family from any more pain and nobody mentioned her in our house i think now they might of been trying to protect me. i never was able to grieve and your so right im suffering now with problems it has caused to my emotional/mental health yet i still never learn because i still bottle everything up not because i want to but over a long time you just dont know how to let things out.

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I"m so sorry that the church which should be the Body of Christ abused you and didn't help you. I hope you don't feel that God is like people. He promises in His Word that He will never leave you nor forsake you. He never lies and when I became a born-again Christian when I was 18 years ago, 40 years ago I have gone through a lot of trials and had a few fair weathered friends who disappointed and hurt me but I knew God still loved and accepted me unconditionally and was faithful. The book of John shows how much God loves us and He sent His only Son to die for us and to live through us. I hope you won't get hardened towards a Father who loves you so much. He knows all the hairs on your head and gave you the parents you had. The reason why disease and many bad things happen is because of sin and diseases in our world. I'm so sorry you can't express yourself to anyone. I used to keep everything inside of me but it made me more depressed and angry. I learned as I started knowing in my heart that God really loved me that I could love myself and have a voice and express myself to safe people. It has changed my life to express myself good and bad and be accepted. I wish you the best dear.

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