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Old 02-12-2012, 11:00 AM   #1
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Unhappy I miss him so much...

My husband passed away in 2008, stage 4 lung cancer. We were married for 35 wonderful years He was my best friend, lover, confidant and a wonderful father. I continue to have this dream where he is there but is telling me that he has moved on, and he avoids me. I know it is him saying please move on and find someone else but is that what it means? Because it makes me so sad to wake up remembering the dream. It happened last night and I have done nothing but cry all morning. I'm 55 years old, work full time, and basically don't go out socially very often. How am I ever going to find someone else? And do I want to? I'm so confused!

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Old 02-25-2012, 03:33 PM   #2
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Re: I miss him so much...

(((Dragonfly))). It sounds as if your husband thinks its time you moved forward with your life..he doesn't want to see you alone.

We all greive as long as necessary then one day we start feeling better...then when you're least expecting it you'll meet someone.

Please know you're being heard.


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