
Hey D-Rob,
You are in luck... Having just recently been diagnosed with Otosclerosis in both ears I am very familiar with the process and continue to do research on it everyday.
Otosclerosis should be diagnosed with at least one (preferably two) hearing tests, including an audiogram and a tympanogram, performed by an audiologist. This should then be reviewed by and the diagnosis confirmed by an ENT who can discuss treatment options with you.
Unfortunately, based on a description of your symptoms, I am not so sure you have otosclerosis, but please get the tests and talk to a doctor.
For more information on otosclerosis and other hearing disorders, visit the National Institute on Deafness and Other Communication Disorders, one the National Institutes of Health, at www.nidcd.nih.gov.