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    Old 05-14-2018, 04:43 AM   #1
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    Iím In Tears!!

    Iv recently been told I have hiv, itís been a huge shock. Iv been on treatment for 2 weeks now. Iv been seeing someone since being diagnosed... Iv not told him anything at all. Things are moving in a very positive way for me and him... heís noticed that Iím sad off and on or seem like Iv got something on my mind. How do I tell him Iv got HIV? Every single time I think about telling him, Iím in tears about it. I adore him, is it to early to tell him? So if he doesnít want to be with me then I wonít be wasting his time? What do I do? Its taking over my life.

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    Old 05-14-2018, 05:10 AM   #2
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    Re: Iím In Tears!!

    Dear Lex711,

    I'm so sorry you have the disease, but it is completely wrong and inappropriate to date and not reveal something as life threatening as your sexual health status. Not telling your status upfront before you accept a date is a serious breach of trust.

    This is not a time for 'sadness'. If you really care about others you would be upfront and open. HIV IS your life.

    Even if you are going to be only friends, you still should reveal your status. Think about liking someone and having them deceive you. Do unto others as you want them to do to you.
    ~ YaYa ~

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