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worrywort 08-07-2003 11:32 AM

i ALSO HAVE DYSPLASIA AND THEY FREEZE YOUR CERVIX TO KILL ALL THE CELLS AND IT HURTS LIKE HELL. I JUST HAD ANOTHER PAP AND IT CAME BACK NORMAL! THANK GOD! USUALLY ONLY TAKES ONE TREATMENT! GOOD LUCK AND IT ONLY TAKES 7 MIN.

Red Bean 08-07-2003 11:46 AM

I JUST got back from my doctor's appointment aaand...I'M OK! What a relief - but boy was I sweating waiting for her to come in and check me out. She said it's just a cyst (like you said shucks) and that I was fine. Said I could remove it if it looks gross to me, but I don't care. As long as I'm healthy and STD-free!

Thanks everyone for your support, especially you shucks!

shucks 08-07-2003 01:51 PM

[quote]Originally posted by Red Bean:
[b]shucks,

I'm going to see my doctor today. I actually had one more question - do I need to see a gyno for all this or can it be my regular practitioner?

I'm just going to go there and ask to get tested for everything, to be on the safe side.

Thanks![/b][/quote]

Well a gyno is a specialist in this matter. It will be more than likely if you see your regular doctor that you will get refered to a gyno.


shucks 08-07-2003 01:53 PM

[quote]Originally posted by Red Bean:
[b]I JUST got back from my doctor's appointment aaand...I'M OK! What a relief - but boy was I sweating waiting for her to come in and check me out. She said it's just a cyst (like you said shucks) and that I was fine. Said I could remove it if it looks gross to me, but I don't care. As long as I'm healthy and STD-free!

Thanks everyone for your support, especially you shucks![/b][/quote]

I am so happy for you. Well when you said it was smooth and a balloon shape I was almost certain it was just a cyst, but since I am not a doctor you did infact needed to get checked out...and it is good that you did...


shucks 08-14-2003 03:50 PM

[quote]Originally posted by worrywort:
[b] There are three! I have never had warts but both docs told me freezing is best but now I have to have a biopsy done and I may not be able to have a child vaginaly. This has been real hard on me and I don't blame my husband. If you don't mind me saying..you are not a doctor. I have been to two and I feel I am getting the right treatment although you can get laser also. THIS causes cancer and you act as if it's a quick fix and its not I have been batteling dysplasia for almost a year now.you have no idea the pain it causes inside and out especially when you want a family. you may read alot but you are not a doc and I didn't ask for an opinion.[/b][/quote]

This was the first comment from YOU to me...when I posted a simple sentence. Let us take a deep look at what you said shall we? (and maybe YOU can see what is going on)...you said that "you are not a doctor." Can YOU tell me where I stated that I am? I can show you where I said that I am NOT and I have numberious of times told others to go get checked out...actually almost every post that I have made to others I have said this...My question to you is why did you say this? Is it because I am answering other people's questions...I will ONLY give out what I know...I am just sharing my education in this matter...why are you so mad about that? Along with this I give out the advice...in what? can YOU guess? "Go get checked out"

Here is another thing you have said " have been to two and I feel I am getting the right treatment although you can get laser also." that is good...I have been to MANY, and I have talked to specialist...and if you feel that you are getting the best treatment then good for you..that is good.


here is the thing that topped the icing...when you said, "you have no idea the pain it causes inside and out especially when you want a family." Tell me, something what makes you think that I havent had a hard life? You dont know what kind of hard life I had to endure. I find this a bit rude. You are making it sound that YOU are the ONLY one who has it tough. Yes I do know what it is like...I lived a hard, hard life If I told you my story you would cry...I mean litterally. But see this place is NOT a place to discuss hard lives...I really rather not, because *I* would NOT want anybody to feel sorry for me...


Now here was my response to your first post to me which I plainly was correcting your judgements and false agusations on me:

"??? First go read everything I have written and you tell me where I said that this is a quick fix.....actually you will find that I say the opposite.
Second if you go read what I have written also you will see that I dont claim to be a doc...however my knowledge of THIS comes directly from a doctors...speacilists....Not once did I claim that I was a doctor and NOT once did I dignose anybody...if you read you will see that I tell people that I am not a doctor and for them to go to a doctor...what are you doing? making judgements on me?

Third if you dont want anybody to respond to your post....then maybe a public forum is not for you??? also you want to see that my post to YOU was NOT an opion...it was a statement.


Fourth there is NO need to put a defensive armor on....I just made a comment for OTHERS to be aware that there are MORE than 1 treatment that the doctor may give out......

Fifth YOU are NOT the ONLY one who has this problem...the world does NOT revolve around you....so dont go attacking me especially when I did NOTHING to YOU.

6th You have NO idea what kind of pain or drama I went through so YOUR comment when you said, "you have no idea the pain it causes inside and out especially when you want a family." is really uncalled for...why you may ask....well because YOU have NO idea what my life is like.....so what you said was premature."

all I did here was correct what you were saying against me....


Now here is your response to THAT post:

"one question? HOW OLD ARE YOU? 5 that is what you are acting like, this board is for posting messages and getting support back, I did not ask you a question and you did not have to make a STATEMENT, I post here so people are aware of the dangers not for people like you to act like you know everything. You are very immature to come back and write something like that. I will not be writing back because I feel like this board is drama now. GROW UP!"

Compare all this and maybe things will calm down? actually you flaring out on me for nothing...IS for NOTHING.

You even go as far as twisting this around and say, "I will not be writing back because I feel like this board is drama now" and making it as YOU are the one who is a victim...no no no....it shouldnt be nobody. I am NOT out to get you or anybody else. Not once did I flare up at anybody for no reason like you did me. and then have the gull to turn it around. I dont play that kind of game...

All I did was first make a statement for OTHERS to be aware of that there are more than 1 treament...and I am still puzzled in why you bursted out on my statment for OTHERS...what is wrong for me to let others be aware? You didnt give that info out until I said something....I just dont get it...


Let me ask YOU a question why are you so against me? Did I attacked YOU for no reason? If so point it out to me. If not then I will take it that you are just being this way for no reason...and THIS makes YOU a better person? Let me say that this is NOT a competing match this is for others to support one another...why arent YOU doing that?

I am sorry that you feel the way you do towards me, but know that my intentions is good. It shouldnt be a festing match, as YOU are making it out to be.

Now folks I would like to apologize for this fuss for what? NOTHING.....

I do hope all is well and good.

[This message has been edited by shucks (edited 08-14-2003).]

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worrywort 08-15-2003 10:24 AM

drag it on, that will help!lol lol

Red Bean 08-15-2003 11:02 AM

Agreed. Everyone is here to help. Some are looking for advice, some for support, some to share their experiences. But it is, as shucks said a PUBLIC BOARD so you can expect others to post opinions, advice, reactions, experiences etc......

I have to say, I looked to shucks for advice specifically after reading what he'd posted- he had experience with HPV and I didn't. And shucks advice to everyone is ALWAYS go to the doctor. And I did. But talking to someone before you go isn't wrong. And no one is trying to be insensitive. You are going through something tough right now...but people are here to support you if you let them. No one has malicious intentions here.

Again, thank you shucks and everyone else for your support and advice on this and all the other boards! We're not here to fight or be defensive. It's the one place we can all remain anonymous and still be open and supportive with each other!

Red Bean 08-15-2003 11:04 AM

oops! I wasn't sure if you were a "he" or a "she". I think now that you're a "she" but either way..heh heh!


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