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Old 06-10-2008, 04:51 AM   #1
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I need some help .. so confussed

I had a hysterectomy when I was just 28 in 2004 but in the last year it just feels like i am getting to feel less of a woman like something of me isn't right I wouldn't say i am depressed just sad sometimes.

I don't have any kids and that's another thing that makes it worse new mum's with new babies showing them to me and myself having to pretend that I care when I don't plus it makes me feel awkward. Also knowing that I will never be able to know what it's like to have a child growing inside of me and going through the labour and having a child to depend on me.

Does anyone else feel this same way. I don't know what I should do. See my GP?

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Old 06-10-2008, 07:23 AM   #2
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Re: I need some help .. so confussed

Hi Angelstar! I'm sad to hear how you are feeling. I think it would be a good thing for you to go to your doctor. It certainly couldn't hurt. Perhaps your hormones are off. What did they remove when you had your hysterectomy?

When it comes to holding other people's babies, I don't do it a lot. I don't have children (I am 44) partially by choice, partially by chance. I figure if I don't hold the baby, I don't get so many of those longings for a baby. I will talk to the babies, I'll play with them, but I don't usually hold them.

I hope that helps a bit. ((((hugs)))

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