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Old 04-05-2006, 08:53 AM   #1
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For everyone who is sufferring

Hi

I would just like to add something to this section of the board from my own personal experience and hopefully help others.


I come into this section of the board on a regular basis, not really to post but just to read as i truly understand what each of you are going through. I have had personal experiences of losing 4 babies all at different stages of the pregnancy. Im not going to go into detail about each of them, i just wanted to say this......................

Please dont blame yourself if you have lost a baby, it is extremely hard not to,but please dont. All the emotions, the blame, hatred, anger, sadness, numbess etc it is all normal. No words can help to ease the pain that you may be going through and it is true when people say time is a great healer

It will stay with you forever, the memories you had, no one can take them away and that is one thing you can truly keep. No doubt you will always wonder what baby will look like now, or what colour hair they may have. I lost my last baby 7 years ago and i still wonder

Only yourself will know when it is time to let go, dont let anyone else pushing you into letting go, you will do it yourself when the time is right. You may think when is that time, will it ever come??? It will come but only you will know when it is ready to let go. And letting go is not burying what has happened, it is just you carrying on with life and being able to talk about your experience in a different way.


Anyway, i just wanted to share that with you all i hoped it has helped alittle

 
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Old 05-11-2006, 09:57 PM   #2
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What a beautiful piece of your heart and emotions you have shared to give some light to those filled with darkness. YOU , YES YOU are a true inspiration sent from God! Bless you , such a wonderful person!!
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Old 05-12-2006, 08:52 AM   #3
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Hi Hailey

Thank you for that it is very nice of you.

I have experienced the pain and every other emotion with this subject and the endless times i come in this board and read about people struggling coming to terms with what has happened, or how they feel their life is over.

I just want to try and give people hope and let them know that they are not alone experiencing this. There is light at the end of the tunnel

And soon enough that light will be far brighter

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Old 05-13-2006, 11:05 AM   #4
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Thank you for this post Sharon.

 
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