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Old 08-22-2006, 08:54 PM   #1
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Unhappy Confused, sad and upset :(

This is my first post on this board, and everyone seems so kind and supportive.

DH and I have been ttc for 2.5 years, and we finally got a very faint BFP on 8/18. I tested again on 8/20 (with HPT) and was very very faint BFP. Then this morning's test was a BFN. I have also been charting my temp. and it had remained high for 16dpo (the longest luteal phase I've had was 12 dpo). But this morning it dipped down very low.

I ended up calling the OB and got a blood test today, but I know what it's going to say.

I am going thru a whirlwind of emotions now because after trying for so long and then having the hope crash down is almost too unbearable for me.
I still haven't started my period yet, but I think I'm about to start spotting.

I'm wondering if I even saw a BFP on the 18th? Maybe I was hoping so much I was seeing things.

I believe that things happen for a reason, and that God is control. But, what was the reason for this??

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Old 08-23-2006, 03:13 AM   #2
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Re: Confused, sad and upset :(

so sorry for you - it is a really confusing and upsetting time - the uncertainty is just horrible. I am sure that you saw BFP - although I don't know why it would come and then go with no other sign so quickly so you are definitely doing the right thing getting it looked into. Having hopes raised and dashed is awful, but one day your time will come, you have to believe that, so try to stay stong and get through the answers of the next few days. Thinking of you xx kelly xx

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