It appears you have not yet Signed Up with our community. To Sign Up for free, please click here....



Miscarriage & Still Birth Message Board

  • Papp-a

  • Post New Thread   Closed Thread
    Thread Tools Search this Thread
    Old 02-13-2007, 06:04 PM   #1
    rushbroncs
    Newbie
    (female)
     
    rushbroncs's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Feb 2007
    Location: Commerce City CO USA
    Posts: 5
    rushbroncs HB User
    Papp-a

    I had a stillbirth on 1-12-07 of my beautiful son Ben.
    We do not have any official test results yet.

    The initial autopsy report said "tight constriction of the cord at the abdominal wall", but the OB said he was growing so that does not make sense.

    I also was diagnosed at an early ultrasound with low PAPP-A levels (pregnancy protein). This means you are at risk for problems, but they never seemed to treat me as too high risk? The baby seemed to be growing OK.
    They put me on low dose aspirin to thin the blood. At 28 weeks, the u/s was OK. But it seems to me that they should have been monitoring me closer???

    I feel all along I knew something was wrong...have other mothers felt this way before they had stillbirths?

    Was wondering if anyone had any advice/input at all as to what this all means???

    But I think I probably need to wait for final results which seem to be soooooo slow in coming...

     
    Sponsors Lightbulb
       
    Old 02-13-2007, 09:10 PM   #2
    Numb_one
    Veteran
    (female)
     
    Numb_one's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Dec 2006
    Location: Western Australia
    Posts: 342
    Numb_one HB User
    Re: Papp-a

    Hi,

    I am sooo sorry to hear about the stillbirth of your son Ben. I can't relate 100% to what you must be feeling as my loss was at 17 weeks & although the gestation of our babies doesn't really make a difference to the pain we experience when we lose a child, i couldn't imagine going through what you have just experienced!

    My good friend had a stillborn son, Elliot at 37 weeks. This was so tough for her because having to go through the birth traumatised her emotionally so much. She kept saying that she wanted a caesarean section to remove him, however the Doctors would not perform the operation & induced her. Elliot was basically classed as being a full term baby at 37 weeks, but something happened to the placenta (which could not be detected by ultrasounds) & Elliot was not getting the nutrients that he needed. It seemed as though the placenta could no longer cope with it's workload & gave up!

    There were no warning signs whatsoever until she started getting excrutiating cramps one night in bed! She went to the hospital asap where they looked for a heartbeat on the screen & that is when they realised that Elliot had died She still has his ashes to this day & has still not even undone the box that they were given to her in. She is not too sure what to do with them, (as am i) however i'm sure she will decide that when the time is right!

    To a more positive story now though.... my friend went on to have a perfectly healthy baby girl, Elly, whom is now 3 years old She was monitored more closely & had regular checkups throughout her pregnancy. She was induced at 37 weeks with Elly incase the same thing happened again.... just to be on the safe side!

    But i totally know what you mean about the wait for the results With my case, although i actually miscarried at 17 weeks, the baby was thought to had actually died between 12 & 13 weeks, so when they sent away my swabs etc and my baby & palcenta ect, i wanted there to be some results found as to why i miscarried so i had answers, but then i realised how close to the first 12 weeks i was when the baby is thought to have died & i feel a little better (if you can say that), that it was back then & not at 17 weeks, because otherwise it could have been something genetic or a chromosomal abnormality etc & i would really be racking my brains trying to figure out what went wrong, whereas now, with things as they went, i am quite sure it was just a natural death, being so close to the first trimester (high risk time).

    Thanks also for your response to my post about my baby's ashes! You're right.... the best thing to do is wait until we (my husband & i) are ready emotionally to make a deision that we won't regret.

    Hope this has kinda helped you & again i am so sorry for your loss. I hope the pain eases for you over time & that you are not too disheartened by your experience.

    Big hugs & take care Crystal xoxoxox

     
    Closed Thread

    Related Topics
    Thread Thread Starter Board Replies Last Post
    Thyroid surgery/ should I? JazBandMom Thyroid Disorders 28 06-30-2007 07:30 AM
    Endo appt this Thursday...what to ask joybdean Thyroid Disorders 2 06-19-2006 11:45 AM




    Thread Tools Search this Thread
    Search this Thread:

    Advanced Search

    Posting Rules
    You may not post new threads
    You may not post replies
    You may not post attachments
    You may not edit your posts

    BB code is On
    Smilies are On
    [IMG] code is Off
    HTML code is Off
    Trackbacks are Off
    Pingbacks are Off
    Refbacks are Off




    Sign Up Today!

    Ask our community of thousands of members your health questions, and learn from others experiences. Join the conversation!

    I want my free account

    All times are GMT -7. The time now is 11:50 AM.





    © 2021 MH Sub I, LLC dba Internet Brands. All rights reserved.
    Do not copy or redistribute in any form!