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Old 03-01-2004, 02:34 PM   #1
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i dunno if this goes here but i need help so ill put it here a 19 year old girl and was wondering in others opinions if it would b wrong to date a 26 year old guy with an 8 year old son?im so confused. i dunno how it would b wit his son being just 11 years younger than me. kinda scary lol. please help

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Old 03-01-2004, 05:33 PM   #2
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Re: please help!

In my opinion it is not the best choice for you. Why not look for a fella that does not carry baggage with him. Same is true for women too. Since you have not been married, wouldn't it be wonderful to start out with someone that is not a cast off regardless of circumstances. Yes, I will get flack for that statement, but, you are young and just now starting out to look over the crop of eligible fellas. Don't be hasty. He had his first time around and you deserve the same.

Old 03-01-2004, 08:44 PM   #3
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I have to agree... 19 is such a young age to deal with a ready made family. This is a time when you can be carefree as you are not responsible to anyone else. When you enter a relationship where there are children, you have a responsibillity to them even if it is small. That man needs to find someone who had been through the adult things that he has so that you are not thrust into something you arent ready for. Good luck to you
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Old 03-01-2004, 09:52 PM   #4
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I have to agree with the other posts. My husband was 25 when I met him and I was 19. Only 6 years apart, but we have nothing in common. It's as though he was from a different era. But we are still married! You can only decide what is right for you. Good luck and keep in touch!

Courtney 8
Brendan 4
Garrett, born Feb. 9th, 2004

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