It appears you have not yet Signed Up with our community. To Sign Up for free, please click here....

Parenting Issues Message Board

kids meeting someone new

Post New Thread   Closed Thread
LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread
Old 05-30-2004, 12:58 AM   #1
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: ohio
Posts: 87
dayanna HB User
kids meeting someone new

Can anyone tell me what they would consider a proper time line for a child to meet a mothers boyfriend? I was thinking at least 6months but my mother thinks that is insane. The more I think about it the more I would enjoy allowing him (boyfriend) tag along to trips like the zoo or maybe camping. By the way my kids are 8 and 5. And there would be definetly no affection shown in front of them. So please give me your opinions on the issue. Thanks

Sponsors Lightbulb
Old 05-31-2004, 03:43 AM   #2
Senior Veteran
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: Nova Scotia, Canada
Posts: 559
MandyAnne26 HB User
Re: kids meeting someone new

i do think the you should know a guy for a bit before he meets the kids. But really it's up to you and where you think the relationship is going. If you guys both seem serious about it and are getting along then i don't see any problem introducing him. You do need to be careful about how you introduce him...of course do it as a friend, but i wouldn't include him in everything. THe kids may get attached to mommies new make sure he isn't around constantly. If the relationship grows more serious tell the kids that mommy and her friend love eachother and want to spend more time together and ask them what they think about that. As long as you keep in mind that if you break up with him then so do the kids than it will be ok.

Closed Thread

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Board Replies Last Post
Woman-26 never married, Man-38 recently divorced w/3 kids...possible or ridiculous? Lil_Volcano Relationship Health 23 09-06-2011 03:54 PM
older kids autismsso Autism Spectrum 8 03-29-2008 09:28 PM
Our Bipolar Kids ~ Finding the Light--Take 2 tsohl Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 1491 06-30-2007 05:28 PM
Our Bipolar Kids ~ Finding The Light At The End Of The Tunnel goody2shuz Bipolar Disorder 685 03-11-2007 03:23 PM
anyone ever pull their kids out of school? MOM23ANGELS Autism Spectrum 7 12-18-2006 01:05 PM
Ever wonder what goes on in a AA/CA/NA meeting? Thiswasyourlife Addiction & Recovery 4 10-07-2006 04:23 AM
Bipolar, no meds, 2 small kids jephiner Bipolar Disorder 20 07-25-2005 05:25 PM
New Mom ...ADD who said raising kids was easy AkiiKaze ADD / ADHD 1 02-09-2005 01:17 AM
Women that want love but not kids? SeeSaw99 Relationship Health 22 04-20-2004 01:53 AM

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

Sign Up Today!

Ask our community of thousands of members your health questions, and learn from others experiences. Join the conversation!

I want my free account

All times are GMT -7. The time now is 11:51 PM.

Site owned and operated by HealthBoards.comô
© 1998-2018 HealthBoards.comô All rights reserved.
Do not copy or redistribute in any form!